I have made a point earlier in the thread that has had no response.
If we agree God is Just - how could He order gay's to be killed when they couldn't help their behaviour?
Does not this fact dismiss the claim that sexual orientation is beyond the human will ?
This being the case sin is sin and some sins are more serious than others.
And don't get me wrong - I am well aware that there but for the grace of God go I... There are powerful deceptive Spirits ready to take anyone captive and in our own strength we are toast.
While every single sin is a sin against God and thus, evil incarnate, some sins are worse than other sins. A "white" lie (oh your top is cute!) isn't the same as murder, in other words.
Homosexuality is something God himself calls an abomination etc etc. It's up there Biblically with murder.
We are "ordered" (though I find this wording distasteful at best) to do things every single day that goes against our fallen nature.
I love debating, for instance, but back in the day my unsaved state showed in spades when I did. Now, I have to fight my "natural instincts" (see "flesh" versus "spirit") and try and tamp down that "fight" inside me when discussing things I'm passionate about online.
Many things are easy for me now that I'm saved, I've seen what I thought was impossible turn to being possible to overcome in my own life through Christ... but that one thing is quite difficult to overcome at times.
There are times I think that "fight" inside me is gone for good, only to see it rear it's head when I least expect it... And I have to step back.
All of us as Christians have things we both had to overcome in Christ after we were saved and that we already have overcome in Christ after we were saved - and for me I see salvation as a process to last the rest of my life (saved past tense, being saved present tense, glorified future tense).
Homosexuality is no different but for one thing - it's the only sin that's major that people refuse to acknowledge as sin at all. They desire absolute acceptance of their sin, AND to be told they are in the right to be so, instead of engaging in sinful behavior.
It's not easy to be confronted with our sin, and our natural fallen state desires sin... So I understand some of the reactions. I went toe to toe with my husband over being told Islam was wrong... Lol. Spitting mad at times.. so I get it.
But it doesn't change that it's about fighting who we were, and becoming who we will be in Christ.... It turns the world on it's head, for homosexuals too if they let it...