Please pray for me, being harassed by gay neighbors

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I have been under attack from a gay “married” couple who live over me. They have been harassing me by making false complaints to the management where I live. While I think management knows their false they have told me they have to check each time there's a complaint in case they're sued. I don't know why these gay men are doing this to me. I have never spoken to them. I have never had a conversation with them. I am asking for prayer for myself. I have this deep seething anger that I can't seem to get rid of. I am also asking that the Lord would expose these men and their evil ways and move them. I would also like Management to be held accountable for allowing these men to use them as a tool of harassment. Please pray. I have never been through anything like this before and this is about my home and my reputation. I have lived where I do for almost 18 years without incident before these men came along and started this darkness.

ETA: I posted for PRAYER and ENCOURAGEMENT. Not for people to make assumptions or project on to me. If you can't respect that, please don't post in this thread.
 
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I have been under attack from a gay “married” couple who live over me. They have been harassing me by making false complaints to the management where I live. While I think management knows their false they have told me they have to check each time there's a complaint in case they're sued. I don't know why these gay men are doing this to me. I have never spoken to them. I have never had a conversation with them. I am asking for prayer for myself. I have this deep seething anger that I can't seem to get rid of. I am also asking that the Lord would expose these men and their evil ways and move them. I would also like Management to be held accountable for allowing these men to use them as a tool of harassment. Please pray. I have never been through anything like this before and this is about my home and my reputation. I have lived where I do for almost 18 years without incident before these men came along and started this darkness.

I will pray for you. That sounds like some of the stuff I went thru with some Mexican-americans some years back. They got me fired from my job cause I am Caucasian and all the other employees were Mexican-american. I hope things get better for you.
 
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I have been under attack from a gay “married” couple who live over me. They have been harassing me by making false complaints to the management where I live. While I think management knows their false they have told me they have to check each time there's a complaint in case they're sued. I don't know why these gay men are doing this to me. I have never spoken to them. I have never had a conversation with them. I am asking for prayer for myself. I have this deep seething anger that I can't seem to get rid of. I am also asking that the Lord would expose these men and their evil ways and move them. I would also like Management to be held accountable for allowing these men to use them as a tool of harassment. Please pray. I have never been through anything like this before and this is about my home and my reputation. I have lived where I do for almost 18 years without incident before these men came along and started this darkness.
In New Zealand we have the Harassment Act which enables a person who is being unfairly harassed to file a Restraining Order in their local Court. There is a hearing which results in a Court Order preventing the harassment with a penalty of two years in prison for violation.

It is very similar to a domestic Protection Order for domestic violence victims. The Restraining Order is for protection against someone who is not a relative.

I suggest you go to your local courthouse and see if they have anything similar that you can file in court for a small filing fee. Then, once the Restraining Order is given, you can call the police if any further harassment occurs and they have to warn or arrest those who are harassing you for breaching the Court Order.
 
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I pray that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, that your shield of faith, coupled with rejoicing in the Lord, will protect and sustain you during this evil attack.

No weapon formed against you shall prosper,
And every tongue which rises against you in judgment
You shall condemn.
This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD,
And their vindication from Me,”
Says the LORD.​
 
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I have been under attack from a gay “married” couple who live over me. They have been harassing me by making false complaints to the management where I live. While I think management knows their false they have told me they have to check each time there's a complaint in case they're sued. I don't know why these gay men are doing this to me. I have never spoken to them. I have never had a conversation with them. I am asking for prayer for myself. I have this deep seething anger that I can't seem to get rid of. I am also asking that the Lord would expose these men and their evil ways and move them. I would also like Management to be held accountable for allowing these men to use them as a tool of harassment. Please pray. I have never been through anything like this before and this is about my home and my reputation. I have lived where I do for almost 18 years without incident before these men came along and started this darkness.

Father in heaven, please create the circumstance where all those involved in this matter will clearly see the truth. Please soften the hearts of the accusers. Please bring Paul peace. Amen
 
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Heavenly Father, whatever their reasoning whatever their intent to harass, work on their hearts so this one can feel safe and comfortable without worrying about false allegations. May the investigation bring truth and knowledge to them about what they see or supposingly hear, so the complaints will stop, and peace will follow, In Jesus Name, Amen
 
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I can't begin to express how your prayers have touched me (that includes those who didn't post but have been praying). To simply say thank you for showing up for me in prayer doesn't even capture how grateful I am. May the Lord continue to bless all of you and yours.
 
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No, that's not it. Those who are led about by demons are mean naturally, and hate the truth, and hate all those who follow Jesus .
The whole world hates us for no reason at all,
as Jesus Said - just as it hates Him.

They always lie, and always have a guilt, so if they have any conscience left at all, they carry about a guilty conscience all the time because of their continual rebellion against Jesus and their sin.
 
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I have been under attack from a gay “married” couple who live over me. They have been harassing me by making false complaints to the management where I live. While I think management knows their false they have told me they have to check each time there's a complaint in case they're sued. I don't know why these gay men are doing this to me. I have never spoken to them. I have never had a conversation with them. I am asking for prayer for myself. I have this deep seething anger that I can't seem to get rid of. I am also asking that the Lord would expose these men and their evil ways and move them. I would also like Management to be held accountable for allowing these men to use them as a tool of harassment. Please pray. I have never been through anything like this before and this is about my home and my reputation. I have lived where I do for almost 18 years without incident before these men came along and started this darkness.

ETA: I posted for PRAYER. Not for people to make assumptions or project on to me. If you can't respect that, please don't post in this thread.
Dont forget to pray for these people who are abusing you. Its hard but its Gods way.
 
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You state you are getting a deep sense of anger from this experience. I pray that God will comfort you in this situation.

It does not matter if the people harassing you are gay. I was nearly beaten up by a heterosexual couple at one time.

I would pray for this couple if I were you. They are your neighbours and even though it can be very hard, Jesus has commanded us to love our neighbours.

I am praying for you.
 
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I have been under attack from a gay “married” couple who live over me. They have been harassing me by making false complaints to the management where I live. While I think management knows their false they have told me they have to check each time there's a complaint in case they're sued. I don't know why these gay men are doing this to me. I have never spoken to them. I have never had a conversation with them. I am asking for prayer for myself. I have this deep seething anger that I can't seem to get rid of. I am also asking that the Lord would expose these men and their evil ways and move them. I would also like Management to be held accountable for allowing these men to use them as a tool of harassment. Please pray. I have never been through anything like this before and this is about my home and my reputation. I have lived where I do for almost 18 years without incident before these men came along and started this darkness.

ETA: I posted for PRAYER and ENCOURAGEMENT. Not for people to make assumptions or project on to me. If you can't respect that, please don't post in this thread.

:heart: i can relate. There was a gay couple that lived in an apt under me. They fought so much in the wee hours of the morning that it sounded like mini-earthquakes, and there was loud cursing, etc. Both were alcoholics.

in mid-morning one day, one of the guys came knocking on my door, LOUDLY. When i opened the door, there was the guy with his drunk self, thinkin' he was gonna blast me cuz my children were "walking" on the floor, and my cat was running back n' forth (she was in her "mode") etc. and it was "loud" and it "disturbed" him.

Well the irony here was just too much to not share it with him. he actually became embarrassed. I also asked him if i had EVER knocked on HIS door during their many episodes of fury OR called the police?

He ended up apologizing. I told him no harm done. i also told him that i am praying for both of them, and he welcomed it.

Unfortunately and tragically, one of the guys was found on the sidewalk outside, a few months later, dead. His partner had shot him. His partner was arrested.

The chalk outline was there till the rain washed it away.

What i would ask you to do is to pray for them, dear heart. I am also, and i'm praying for your protection, in the meantime.

You hang in there. Let's pray that God mooooves in ways that only He can.

This may be a way that He brings them to your attention.

Praying. (((hug)))
 
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