Our church is starting an in-depth stury on several of the Epistles. We're starting with 1st Corionthians. I read this last night (translation below from the NIV):
Seems pretty explicit and unambiguous.
So, ideally we should be so full of agape (love of God) and philos (brotherly love) that we don't need eros (romantic love). However...if we do have a need for eros, it is to be expressed in a monogamous marriage to a person of the opposite sex.1 Corinthians 7
Marriage
1Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry. 2But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. 3The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. 5Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 6I say this as a concession, not as a command. 7I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.
8Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am. 9But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
Seems pretty explicit and unambiguous.
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