From the article you posted.
Although public policy is changing in Germany – for example, there are now more full-time nursery places available – prevailing attitudes still leave many German women with the feeling that they must choose between work and family.
It also talks about women having to work part time with lower pay and fewer benefits. So the article does not support your conclusions that things are so much better over there.
And free college isn't all that great either over there. There is rationing of students, high drop out rates and restrictions.
Free College in Europe: A Cautionary Tale for the United States
European countries that offer tuition-free higher education also struggle with the issue of completion. Finland, for example, ranks first among all Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development (OECD) countries in terms of subsidies for higher education, with 96% of all higher education funding coming from public sources. However, Finland ranks 25th among OECD countries for degree attainment.
Finland offers a nice deal for students only if they are lucky and talented enough to get in. In 2016, Finnish institutions of higher education accepted just 33 percent of applicants. That’s the degree of selectivity we’d expect from an elite college in America, yet that is the admissions rate for Finland’s entire university system. There is a price to pay for that kind of selectivity: Finland ranks in the bottom third of developed countries for college-degree attainment. Meanwhile, the tuition-charging United States ranks in the top third, thanks to open-enrollment policies at many of our colleges and universities, along with private financing and plenty of spots offered through a diverse range of institutions.
There are other things too line students still graduating with a lot of debt. They don't get to study whatever they want. There are a lot of issues that you don't seem to be aware of.
No, College Is Not “Free” in Europe – It’s Expensive and Broken
I know you live socialism. And it all sounds very nice. Free stuff. How awesome. But its not free, it creates other problems and is not the panecea you make it out to be.