Perhaps I didn't get all that above the way I was meant to. Because what you said here seems vague. Although it does seem you're saying you getting to heaven will be based on how well you perform ie "our love will get us into heaven". What we do and how well we do it and what we abstain from is our way into heaven. It's up to us to save ourselves by how well we love; to the amount God requires us to love, but we don't know what that amount is...
Maybe you’re not getting it because you’re not really reading my posts with much care. In Christianity, man cannot possibly save himself, because man cannot make himself righteous enough to be saved, because he
possesses no righteousness on his own, apart from God. And we’re born apart from God. So the idea is that we must become united
with God first of all, a relationship that man was made for, and then
He makes us righteous, who we were created to be. He accomplishes in us what we cannot on our own, what the law could not accomplish in us. He justifies us. Apart from Him sin is inevitable, but
with Him we’re moved towards obedience and righteousness. That’s a work of His in us. And the identity of that righteousness is chiefly love.
Don’t you know that when you offer yourselves to someone as obedient slaves, you are slaves of the one you obey—whether you are slaves to sin, which leads to death, or to obedience, which leads to righteousness?” Rom 6:16
As we love, we become increasingly like Him, and we act like Him, and love acts, in many righteous ways, for the good of others, and love overcomes sin in us. But it remains an option, so the more we remain turned from the world and the “flesh”, that means that we’re remaining in Him, and in that love.
So, yes, as I’ve said, what we
do counts, even though it’s all compelled by the grace of God, just as faith is compelled by Him. We’re not justified by works of the law, we’re justified by God.
Then we work, as Jesus, Paul, John and James et al attest, because then grace, then love, then the Spirit works
in us towards our salvation, as long as we stay on board. But that work is easy because now it’s done willingly, with the mind of Christ, out of love, the loves He’s wrought within us.
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just as sin reigned in death, so also grace might reign through righteousness to bring eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” Rom 5:21
But we can turn away from that righteousness. We’ll be judged by the fruit that’s produced by love, as we remain faithful to Him. The law produces no such fruit, it can only define it.
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I am the vine and you are the branches. The one who remains in Me, and I in him, will bear much fruit. For apart from Me you can do nothing. If anyone does not remain in Me, he is like a branch that is thrown away and withers. Such branches are gathered up, thrown into the fire, and burned." John 15:5-6
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You will say then, “Branches were broken off so that I could be grafted in.” Granted. But they were broken off because of unbelief, and you stand by faith. Do not be arrogant, but tremble. For if God did not spare the natural branches, he will not spare you either. Consider therefore the kindness and sternness of God: sternness to those who fell, but kindness to you, provided that you continue in his kindness. Otherwise, you also will be cut off.” Rom 11:19-22