I have an important question.. I have a friend in an abusive relationship. She asked to stay with me for a few days. There is no ulterior motive on either of our parts. I’ve known her for years. I know many people have roommates, and I’m being berated for even thinking about letting her stay here. I have three kids and they’re always around. They told me they’d be ok with her staying here for a bit. I just hate the feeling I have right now, worrying not about what God says but what people think.
I’ve been studying Paul’s letters to the Thessalonians regarding this, and while initially the passage surround the avoidance of the appearance of evil appears to point to my obvious answer, I also feel like this passage was driving me to legalism and not offering shelter because people might talk. I’ve been digging into this specific passage and it seems that the language is not pointing to the legalistic sense of avoiding everything that people might perceive as wrong, because Jesus was accused of this by spending most of his time with the wicked people of society.
I feel in my spirit that opening my door to a friend in need is not necessarily wrong. I feel peace about that aspect. What I don’t have peace about is what others might say or think and that is driving me into a wrong state of thinking. For instance. When I’m praying I feel a sense of peace over this. I don’t start getting anxiety until I start thinking about the opinions of others.
There is nothing sexual going on, my kids are here and we’re all quarantined so there won’t be a time during her transition that there won’t be some sort of accountability.
I’d appreciate help hashing this out.
I’ve been studying Paul’s letters to the Thessalonians regarding this, and while initially the passage surround the avoidance of the appearance of evil appears to point to my obvious answer, I also feel like this passage was driving me to legalism and not offering shelter because people might talk. I’ve been digging into this specific passage and it seems that the language is not pointing to the legalistic sense of avoiding everything that people might perceive as wrong, because Jesus was accused of this by spending most of his time with the wicked people of society.
I feel in my spirit that opening my door to a friend in need is not necessarily wrong. I feel peace about that aspect. What I don’t have peace about is what others might say or think and that is driving me into a wrong state of thinking. For instance. When I’m praying I feel a sense of peace over this. I don’t start getting anxiety until I start thinking about the opinions of others.
There is nothing sexual going on, my kids are here and we’re all quarantined so there won’t be a time during her transition that there won’t be some sort of accountability.
I’d appreciate help hashing this out.