My older sister, who is a christian, came to stay with me for a few days.
She has always been a bit critical of me and cannot understand me at the best of times.
She says I frustrate her because I am not listening sometimes or don't read her instructions.
She came to stay with me a few days, bringing her daughter (who is an adult) with her
There was a miscommunication regarding some sausages(we are Australian) and my brother brought some sausages over
but she told me in two emails and a text message that they wouldn't be eating the sausages as her daughter may be allergic to them.
I did say, when she was with me, that we could perhaps eat them.
She got very angry with me and raised her voice and her arms and hands went up in the air
She was frustrated with me because she said she had clearly wrote in the emails and text messages that they were buying
the food and the sausages wouldn't be eaten.
I apologised sincerely for the mistake I made and she replied, "mistake? ...you make many mistakes!!
I encouraged her to focus on the things I was getting right.
I had prepared for their visit, I bought them each a nice towel to use, new pillows, cleaned the house
did the gardens, etc.
I feel at a loss now because I can never please her, although I know I only have to please God
but it seems, my life life has been one of 'disappointing her' because I frustrate her and make many mistakes.
I love my sister dearly.
What can I do not to make the mistakes again and improve our relationship?
She raises her voice at me and gets very angry when I forget something she has told me.
I have told her I have a lot on my plate now as a single person, focusing on paying bills,
making sure I have enough food, etc.
I feel deeply grieved and sad.
She has always been a bit critical of me and cannot understand me at the best of times.
She says I frustrate her because I am not listening sometimes or don't read her instructions.
She came to stay with me a few days, bringing her daughter (who is an adult) with her
There was a miscommunication regarding some sausages(we are Australian) and my brother brought some sausages over
but she told me in two emails and a text message that they wouldn't be eating the sausages as her daughter may be allergic to them.
I did say, when she was with me, that we could perhaps eat them.
She got very angry with me and raised her voice and her arms and hands went up in the air
She was frustrated with me because she said she had clearly wrote in the emails and text messages that they were buying
the food and the sausages wouldn't be eaten.
I apologised sincerely for the mistake I made and she replied, "mistake? ...you make many mistakes!!
I encouraged her to focus on the things I was getting right.
I had prepared for their visit, I bought them each a nice towel to use, new pillows, cleaned the house
did the gardens, etc.
I feel at a loss now because I can never please her, although I know I only have to please God
but it seems, my life life has been one of 'disappointing her' because I frustrate her and make many mistakes.
I love my sister dearly.
What can I do not to make the mistakes again and improve our relationship?
She raises her voice at me and gets very angry when I forget something she has told me.
I have told her I have a lot on my plate now as a single person, focusing on paying bills,
making sure I have enough food, etc.
I feel deeply grieved and sad.