well brothers in christ,i,m in a interfaith marriage(wifes catholic,I raised lutheran)i,m a registered member of her parish and am more active(parish food bank,housing the homeless,etc,)than the majority of the cradle catholics there,I contribute financially to the parish as well as catholic relief services,i also attend anglican and lutheran churches by myself,whether YOU legalists admit it or not i,m in spiritual communion with the catholic church,for the longest time i sat in the pew and asked the lord for spiritual communion during holy eucharist,the beautiful people at the parish as well as the priest encouraged me to commune,as stated i,m hardly just a guest at the parish.i know and i have faith that jesus knows that i,m doing nothing wrong! in christian unity,luthcath