Do YOU have a crush on anyone? (59)

[SarahsKnight]

Just never know. It's always possible. Never went on a date with anyone through here, but I have met up with two people. One female and one male. One of them is married now. 2008 and maybe in 2010.

I would love to meet you some day, Miss Sampa. ^-^


EDIT: On purely non-romantic terms, mind you ... in case the above statement alone scared you.

 

[SarahsKnight]

Yes at least 5 that I know of. Haven't kept up with many of them as they tend to fall off the edge of the earth after getting married

Peachy Keen (Tracie) has a YT channel she seems to keep up with quite regularly. You should look her up.

 

[SarahsKnight]

. He asked me if there isn't anything that I haven't done? This will be my actual first sort of date for the year.

Well, in terms of being active and eating up life out there, I kind of wanted to ask you the same thing, Miss Sampa. ^-^

 

[SarahsKnight]

My guess is that Saucy is saying that he is praying to have a crush on someone soon.

And, judging by the contents of the last page on this very thread, I am assuming such prayers have been answered.


#linux.poet

 

[linux.poet]

And, judging by the contents of the last page on this very thread, I am assuming such prayers have been answered.

And given that I'm not equipped to a be a pastor's wife, the feelings aren't mutual, and due to my burgeoning interest in chess I'm not interested in marriage at the moment, he can feel whatever he wants. It's not going to go anywhere.

*commences resolute stare of defiance*

 

[.Mikha'el.]

And, judging by the contents of the last page on this very thread, I am assuming such prayers have been answered.


#linux.poet

I'm actually not so sure about this.

 

[bèlla]

I honestly wouldn't mind meeting someone on here. I think it would be fairly nice.

What are you after? And say it with swag! Give a girl a few butterflies and palpitations. ~lol

 

[He is Worthy]

No I don't have a crush.

 

[linux.poet]

I'm actually not so sure about this.

I don't have a crush on Saucy, and I said as much. I know what a crush feels like, and this is not it. What I am feeling is the normal warm affection one may experience among good friends.

Romantic attractions come with an irrational intensity, an affection that has to be expressed and cannot be contained. It is a desire for time alone with that specific person. I am not feeling this.

Thanks for backing me up. This post is serious and is in no way sarcastic. I also meant it earlier when I said that I did not have a crush on anyone at the moment, and that post was a serious one too.

 

[Sketcher]

I may be ready to have another crush again after a long while . . . but I may or may not be blackpilled at this point.

 

[linux.poet]

but I may or may not be blackpilled at this point.

What is blackpilled? *does not know what blackpilled means*

 

[sampa]

I would love to meet you some day, Miss Sampa. ^-^


EDIT: On purely non-romantic terms, mind you ... in case the above statement alone scared you.

It's always possible. I thought it might have been possible when I was going to go to my cousin's daughter's wedding in your area, but we canceled those plans.

 

[SarahsKnight]

It's always possible. I thought it might have been possible when I was going to go to my cousin's daughter's wedding in your area, but we canceled those plans.

If you ever are in Arkansas at all, please let me know if you'd still like to meet. I would be willing to go out of my way a few hours to enjoy the company of a lady such as yourself. *nods politely*

 

[sampa]

Still no big crush here, and I'm not sure what to make of the date walk coming up with an ultra marathoner and triathlete. The conversation we had, I think he is more hobby-based and he didn't get to the deeper things like faith. He kept asking what I do on the winter, as if snow plowing is not enough. I don't think that some people understand how much of your winter is taken up when you are on call for snow plowing. His silence after a video chat, and I know he's busy with fixing up his lake house 2 hours North of here, is telling.

Last year I went on a local date with a prior sports broadcaster turned counselor. (I didn't know how popular he was until after the date) He too, had asked me out without talking with me on the phone. And I said it was appropriate to talk by phone first. After there was long periods of silence. I had to remind him the day of that we were going to meet. He said he remembered but I couldn't tell since there wasn't many messages. And after meeting he was very silent too and I had to say goodbye, but of course friendly terms and take case I ran into him. His history was telling also, he said he met a handful of girls before but nothing came of it. It sounded like he wasn't ready to move on from his ex-wife. I found out after the date that his wife was a weather forecaster.

The guy that I had a connection with last Tuesday by video, 4 and 1/2 hour drive away, I know he is still thinking of me and I think of him. We connected on social media. He is somebody I probably could get excited about if I was to meet him in person. But it's pretty impossible with the distance and him having six kids that are not fully grown. *Sigh

 

[sampa]

If you ever are in Arkansas at all, please let me know if you'd still like to meet. I would be willing to go out of my way a few hours to enjoy the company of a lady such as yourself. *nods politely*

I definitely will! That's how I was able to meet up with someone else in South Carolina when I was training with the Air Force.

 

[Saucy]

Do not worry @linux.poet I do not have a crush. I was just teasing you. I usually hide my real crushes lol.

 

[bèlla]

I usually hide my real crushes lol.

Not so fast. Tell us!

 

[Sketcher]

What is blackpilled? *does not know what blackpilled means*

I'm not 100% sure myself, so that's why I'm uncertain as to whether I have been truly blackpilled or not. But at least part of it is, "nothing you can do will be enough to attract and keep a woman you are attracted to." And I've been given reasons to believe it.

 

[bèlla]

I hadn't heard it either. But this is what I found.

Black Pill or blackpilled is an expression, referring to the taking of the allegorical black pill; not as bright colored as the red and blue in the Matrix movies, but a lot more intense.

Taking the black pill basically refers to the realization to the ugly truth of life; the world is a hostile and unequal place, set in the favor of certain people with certain characteristics; be it sex, skin color, intelligence or looks, all people are born different with different potential.

This is another definition for dating purposes.

The Blackpill ideology claims that physical attractiveness is the primary determining factor in dating and relationship success. Unlike the Bluebill and Redpill ideologies, Blackpill maintains that the effects that physical appearance has on one’s performance and results in the dating world cannot be remedied by improving personality, clothing, hairstyle or hygiene.

Any non-physical characteristics, such as personality, will simply be shadowed by one’s physical appearance which include facial proportionality, height, body fat percentage and frame. The theory also holds that women generally want to ‘date up’ (hypergamy) and tend to look for men who are higher than them in status and attractiveness which leaves average men with even less options.

This reminds me of a program that used to come on television. She was a matchmaker for wealthy singles. Her clients ranged in looks and personalities as you'd expect. But she always had a few who believed their wealth would offset their deficiencies. Especially in appearance. They never got the girl and she'd have to have a heart to heart. Their desires were unrealistic. But they didn't want to hear it. They believed money was enough.

She told them something I never forgot. She said a 10 will never choose you because she's a 10. She can find someone in a similar range with means. She doesn't have to settle. Some of them listened but a few were upset.

While I hasten to say they're right. It's an interesting example of that perspective. Money didn't make the difference some assumed. They could get an attractive woman. But she wasn't a knockout. And that's the one they wanted. The majority desired to marry and settle down. The ones who listened made a good match and continued.

The black pill is a modern way of addressing privilege and its impact on relationships. I think there's some truth to what they've said. But I don't think its hopeless. All things are possible with God.

 

[pc_76]

I am having that kind of "I want that" feeling regarding a certain girl who is a friend of my friend on social media.