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I caught that yesterday. All I could think while reading it was "Gee, good thing this boy isn't homeschooled or he would miss out on all of this valuable socialization!"
so i take it you are a homeschooling mom?
I don't think that is any consolation to this boys' mom.
 
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They also reject any suggestion that they should move out of the district because of this.
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Once I read that I refused to read further. 3 years of regular physical assault in plain sight of your younger child is not enough to remove your child from a violent situation? :confused:
 
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Once I read that I refused to read further. 3 years of regular physical assault in plain sight of your younger child is not enough to remove your child from a violent situation? :confused:
that was my thought... there is a point at which your "right to be where you are" is trumped by the "obligation to care for your child when no one else will"... obviously they don't get that.

ugh.
 
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I don't think that is any consolation to this boys' mom.

No, it's not. Neither was the article nor any pity that is expressed here. That's a completely separate issue.

As a parent I'm outraged and I hope other parents who see this learn that there is an alternative to public school.
 
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As a mother I am appalled at this behavior both from the other boys and the school officials! I would do the same thing if I were in the position of Billy's parents....of course I think I would also find another school but that's just me....things like this are the things that make me certain that home schooling is the way to go!!!
 
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As a mother I am appalled at this behavior both from the other boys and the school officials! I would do the same thing if I were in the position of Billy's parents....of course I think I would also find another school but that's just me....things like this are the things that make me certain that home schooling is the way to go!!!
 
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I don't have anything against homeschoolers. Really.

But everytime I see a "This is why I choose to homeschool!" or "This is why homeschooling is the only way to go" type of statement, it makes me cringe a bit.

I would say that IF your child is experiencing bullying or other social problems at school, then fine, quit your job and start homeschooling them. But I don't think it has to be a case where you homeschool out of fear that your child MIGHT become a victim of bullying or sexual advances from their teacher (I've seen this said in another thread).

If you were to extend the logic used by some of the homeschooler statements that I've seen, one would then expect their child to complete a university degree through correspondence and then get a job (if they choose to work) working out of their homes.
 
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No, it's not. Neither was the article nor any pity that is expressed here. That's a completely separate issue.

As a parent I'm outraged and I hope other parents who see this learn that there is an alternative to public school.
there is no alternative for us.
I don't consider myself smart enough to homeschool, and we cannot afford private school.
and just because you homeschool, that doesn't mean your child will not be a victim of bullying...say in a playground or at a friend's house.
I know a child who is being bullied by her own cousin!
 
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there is no alternative for us.
I don't consider myself smart enough to homeschool, and we cannot afford private school.
and just because you homeschool, that doesn't mean your child will not be a victim of bullying...say in a playground or at a friend's house.
I know a child who is being bullied by her own cousin!
Are cyber charter schools not available in all the states yet?

As for the child being bullies by their cousin, why would a parent continue to put the child in a situation where it would continue? I don't think we can prevent all possibilities of bullying but we can take the action to prevent it from happening repeatedly once we know.
 
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Are cyber charter schools not available in all the states yet?

As for the child being bullies by their cousin, why would a parent continue to put the child in a situation where it would continue? I don't think we can prevent all possibilities of bullying but we can take the action to prevent it from happening repeatedly once we know.

cyber charter schools??

why not remove the bully?!!
He/she will only do it to someone else when their current victim is gone.
it's the bully who needs to be addressed i think.
 
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cyber charter schools??

why not remove the bully?!!
He/she will only do it to someone else when their current victim is gone.
it's the bully who needs to be addressed i think.
but when that's not an option, the parents are obligated to remove the victim...
 
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cyber charter schools??

why not remove the bully?!!
He/she will only do it to someone else when their current victim is gone.
it's the bully who needs to be addressed i think.
but when that's not an option, the parents are obligated to remove the victim...
 
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but when that's not an option, the parents are obligated to remove the victim...
see, that's my point! Why wouldn't that be an option?
It seems to me that the bully has all the rights and the victim is being punished by not being able to attend school or ride the bus.
maybe i'm just being stupid. IDK
 
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