All of the above.
I've read his posts in this thread from the beginning since I've joined, and I'm not getting that impression. He is not even meeting women on Christian dating sites.
Again, I've read the posts throughout this thread. If there is any post he wrote that would lead to that conclusion, or even hint of that, I'd like to know what it is.
They don't fall into either of the categories in his case from the posts that I have read on this thread. He is not meeting anyone thorough online dating, and church meetings are mainly men gathering there with a couple of women who are usually involved with someone else. We know that main services people walk in and walk out quickly so it's hard to connect with anyone, especially a lady that does not notice you first or is showing any indication or sign that she wants to be approached by you.
I don't really buy that because of the internet and online dating. There is no excuse for people not to meet people in this day and age unless you happen to be that guy that most women are not showing interest or cooperating with. As long as there is a healthy level of interest or reciprocity then I don't care about any other issues including geography because at least you have a positive experience in that issue in the back of your mind and it doesn't feel that extreme.
I disagree because of the age of the thread. If he was younger, or if this was a new thread then that would be reasonable to say. This is a very old thread with no solution in sight or on the horizon. Perhaps eventually he'll find someone and there will be a good update on this thread. However, to say this is not an incel resonant thread would be dishonest.
People put baggage or stigma because not being able to attract a woman or have a girlfriend somehow makes guys out to be losers or something is deficient with them. That baggage came long before the term incel became any word. At the end of the day the only thing to fight stigma or baggage is to see that there is nothing inherently or morally wrong with it, it's quite common as many guys are facing the same thing and you are not the odd one out. That's better than putting it under a rug and just saying you are lonely because that doesn't really say much. People in relationships are lonely too. In fact, in one relationship in the past, there were moments I felt more lonelier than I ever did when I was single.