virginity

  1. Ethan Redmace

    What do I do? How can I have joy and peace? Long backstory.

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  2. bèlla

    The Warped World of Incel Extremists

    Inside the Warped World of Incel Extremists Jake Davison shot two women, two men and the three-year-old girl in a deadly six-minute spree. In trying to understand what prompted a man in Plymouth, England to commit the worst mass shooting in the UK for over a decade, attention has turned to his...
  3. DevinCamary

    What I found in regards to sexual assault and the victim's virginity.

    So... as some of you know, I was sexually abused before. Years ago I was groped/raped on one occasion, and in another, groomed into sharing explicit photos of me doing things to myself, which could also be considered rape.. Years later, I still get extremely depressed and suicidal from it...
  4. DevinCamary

    Am I a virgin after sexual assault

    I... I need help... I want to save myself until marriage, but since I was sexually abused before, and everyone saying I lost my innocence... it's been hard... Is there ANYTHING in the bible that says a rape/sexual abuse survivor is still a virgin, still sexually pure? Or am I damned for...
  5. D

    Anyone else like me?

    Im a Christian male who is in an apprentice phase of life. Im out of college, starting a new job (still in training) and want to meet a girl/woman who is at the same place in life. I’ve never been married, have no kids and am a virgin. I’m looking for the same in a woman. It seems like she...
  6. DevinCamary

    Does God see rape victims as virgins

    I've been extremely depressed about this and I have been trying to find verses as to what the answer is. In the new testament, since old testament is not helpful in that regard at all. Does God see rape victims as virgin? Please explain below...
  7. DevinCamary

    Question about sexual assault and the victims purity.

    I already asked about this before a while ago but... what does the bible say about the purity of a victim of sexual violence. I am asking because I was groped while I was in a bible camp, and I was groomed online. I never really had sex with anyone so I'm technically a virgin, but I am still...
  8. Joyeuse

    Is it wrong to be Single?

    Hello Folks, I'm 21 (6 months and I'll be 22) and I have never had a girlfriend (I am also very introvert). So I'm also a virgin and everything just points out that I will never get married. The fact is that I am not that interested in finding a partner. I always thought that marriage should be...
  9. Lybrah

    Virgin?

    If a woman has played around with a man and done everything sexual but has not been penetrated by him, is she still a virgin?
  10. C

    Abstinence

    Hi all, I was wondering if I could get some clarification on what the Bible would consider as “sex”. I’ve always wanted to stay a virgin until marriage, but am I still considered a virgin if my area has touched her area without actually going in? I’ve already prayed for forgiveness, but am I...
  11. RoRoberto

    Disgust for "Church Youth" groups

    Some little background: I was born and grew up in a Christian family, and while we did have some testing and difficulties at some point, just like in any family, I never stopped wishing to become a true Christian man, with strong feelings of love and commitment for God and country. Outside...
  12. Amy-Rebekah

    Stuck between a rock and a hard place

    TRIGGER WARNING SEXUAL ASSULT. basically my church is very conservative and as a result expects women to be virgins and have hymens etc except they don’t know that prior to coming to the church I was raped multiple times by a friend and I have gynae issues which have resulted in scans...
  13. PureWolf

    You're a Virgin? Challenge Accepted!

    So I'm 28 years old. I'll be 29 in August and I am a virgin. I decided at a young age to save myself for marriage out of my devotion to God. Some people say that is admirable or other things of the like, but I feel as if they are patronizing me. Some poke fun at me for it. One person in...
  14. H

    Chastity - What is the limit?

    Hello, I have a spiritual question about Chastity and my pastor didn't give me a clear answer (and it is bit embarrassing to ask in person). (I am in mid-20's, so I am not a teenager with questions, but just new to Christianity and the different aspects of Christian life style). 1. My...
  15. D

    Trouble having sex first time

    Hi there, my husband and I are newly weds and are having a lot of difficulty having sex. I experience pain when he inserts just one finger and as such we have yet to progress past that, much less to full consummation. As it is both our first times, I feel quite nervous and flinch / tense a lot...
  16. S

    Dating a non-virgin

    Dear All, I am currently dating a girl and i found out that she is not a virgin. As for me through the Grace of God i am. I understand and truly believe that it was not my will, but rather God's Will and Grace that intervened in many of these situations where i could too have slept with a girl...
  17. J

    Need advice to get over the fact that my girlfriend is not virgin

    Hi, sorry for my bad english in advance. I’m with my girlfriend since 6 month, we know each other since we are in middle school. After that she go in another school and in an other high school in the same town. We are now both 20 years old, we started to speak together after all these years...
  18. B

    Did Deuteronomy 22:13-21 cause innocent women to be executed?

    My question is as follows: Presumably, the proof of virginity required to prove the woman's innocence was a bloody rag proving that her hymen had broken on her wedding night. But many women break their hymens accidentally (from horseback riding, falling on their crotch while climbing a fence...