My wife and I are both Christians, we love the Lord with all of our hearts. We have been married for over 20 years and have definitely had some struggles (finances mainly), but we deeply care for each other. We are in our early 40's and in pretty good shape. The problem is, she just won't have sex with me. It's been over 7 months now. Before that, we would have sex about once every 6-8 weeks. She just has no real drive. The sex is great when we have it, I make sure that I satisfy her multiple times before I get satisfied, so I just feel so rejected and unattractive since she doesn't want to be intimate. She is not a touchy person at all and I am. I have always had a higher sex drive than her, I could do it every day. I just want people to talk to about this. Can't talk to friends at all. We are in counseling, but it's for other things, not sex. It comes up a little bit, but she just doesn't even think about it. I touch some, but not every day. I don't watch inappropriate content, but probably would if I didn't feel it was wrong. I think about sex all the time. I am praying to God to help me, but just getting very frustrated.....