I am almost 30 years of age, currently 28. Ever since I was little, I was told growing up not to drink, smoke, or do drugs. I never have. I was also told that I should not have sexual intercourse until marriage. I am to this day still a Virgin and I am saving myself until marriage.
I am proud to be a Virgin and I am happy to be waiting until marriage. BUT here's the thing, I am saving myself for marriage and I even have a Boyfriend, who I have been with going on 2 years.
He knows I am a Virgin and he knows I am waiting until marriage. BUT...... he keeps telling me how he's sexually frustrated, and how he wants us to move things to another level and to have sex.
I have told him, you know my feelings on sex, I am not having sex until I am married. He understands but it still gets to him and he wants us to have sex already so we can be closer to each other.
I have told him, if you want sex that much, we can break up and he can find someone to date that he can have sex with ya know? But he then says, people are worth waiting for, and I don't want to loose you etc. I just don't know what to do. Please help. Am I doing the right thing by waiting or is it wrong of me?
I am proud to be a Virgin and I am happy to be waiting until marriage. BUT here's the thing, I am saving myself for marriage and I even have a Boyfriend, who I have been with going on 2 years.
He knows I am a Virgin and he knows I am waiting until marriage. BUT...... he keeps telling me how he's sexually frustrated, and how he wants us to move things to another level and to have sex.
I have told him, you know my feelings on sex, I am not having sex until I am married. He understands but it still gets to him and he wants us to have sex already so we can be closer to each other.
I have told him, if you want sex that much, we can break up and he can find someone to date that he can have sex with ya know? But he then says, people are worth waiting for, and I don't want to loose you etc. I just don't know what to do. Please help. Am I doing the right thing by waiting or is it wrong of me?