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  1. pantingdeer

    Is it ok for christians to go to nightclubs

    I feel like I've really missed out on experiences at university to make friends. I don't drink, talk to women, have good friends. What are your thoughts on going to nightclubs and having a drink or two to become more social and meet new people?
  2. pantingdeer

    Sexual Desire for women disappeared

    When I was 16/17 it seemed like my sexual desire for women left overnight and since then I begun to hate myself as I could never have a girlfriend because I'd be lying to myself and I wouldn't be able to please her properly or be honest with her. I did bad things to 'test' myself and I couldn't...
  3. pantingdeer

    Life is ruined as not attracted to women

    I am 20 now but when I was 17 I one day just seemed to lose my sexual attraction to women - I could still recognise when I liked the look of a girl but all deeper feelings had vanished. I did bad things at the time to 'test' myself as I thought I was going mad but to keep it simple I couldn't...
  4. pantingdeer

    How to make friends at uni

    I'm 20 yrs old and at university and don't really have any friends. I find it difficult to socialise and speak with people and so I probably end up looking a bit weird and so people don't want to be with me. I only really hang around with one person and I'm not really even friends with them, my...
  5. pantingdeer

    Sexual issues and depressed please help

    I am 20 yrs old and I am depressed because I fear I will be forever alone. Since 3 yrs ago I somehow seemed to lose my libido and attraction towards women overnight. I can still see the beauty of them but don't feel any strong urge towards them or anything and find it very difficult to be...
  6. Matthew Frazier

    I'm Worthless and Bound to Suffer

    My suffering is endless, and God has destined me for failure. It all started with childhood medical trauma (private matter, no questions please) when I was a kid, which people have used as an excuse to bully me as well as distrust in my ability to function, even though I don’t remember much of...
  7. V

    I feel shunned after opening up

    Hello all, I've really been struggling with my relationship with the people at the church I attend. I was invited by a neighbor a little over a year ago when I moved to a new area. I had a very compelling first visit to the church which ended up with me in tears and being consoled by my VERY...
  8. ArmourYellow

    Sad and lonely, I know I'm not the only one, lol

    Warning, I'm just gonna throw up here on the interent, sorry. Thats pretty much it, just sad and lonely again. No good reason as usual either. No friends to hang out with and no prospective spouse are some instigators. Found this site like anyone else these days. Typed my situation into...
  9. P

    Needing Women's Thoughts.

    Hi, I am a Pastor and Father of 4. My wife and I have been married for nearly 11 years. For the past 4-5 years my wife has slowly begun to pull away from me physically, relationally and even spiritually. At this point, she refuses to kiss me, pulls away when I hug her, and we haven't been...
  10. R

    Anxiety/Depression

    Hello everyone, I was diagnosed with anxiety and depression trying to get well. Seeing a doctor and reading the bible. By name Is Robert
  11. StephonforJesus

    A Christian guy looking for Christian friend/pen pal to talk to.

    My name is Stephon. I am 30 years old who likes to read the Bible to meditate and act on it. Also, I like to do photography (particularly the fall leaves and sunsets), cook, hangout at different places. Right now I am in a huge struggle to finding a single Christian pen pal/friend around my age...
  12. B

    Lonely 20 year old feeling lost, depressed, stressed out and unable to sleep much

    Hello all. I've been feeling so blue lately. I've been at a community college since my parents divorced in 2013 (year I graduated), and still there now. I dread going to school, and even feel depressed there. I'm trying to do the right thing by 'society's" standards, but just seems like things...