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  1. Heartofsilver

    Confession And Prayer

    Hello everyone, I honestly didn't know where to put this, so I decided to release this here. Years ago, I was engaged to be married to an abusive man. We were both young and I made a mistake of losing my virginity to him. We later moved in together, the emotional, mental, verbal abuse...
  2. Christsfreeservant

    Lying Tongues

    An Original Work / April 9, 2018 You say one thing, But you do another. You say you’re pure, But have another lover. Your talk is cheap. And your walk is failing. You’re not sincere, So, you can stop your railing. You play your games, And your lips do conquer. You may fool some, But, I have...
  3. S

    Ongoing suffering and grief from the separation of my ex partner

    Hello everyone, I hope you are having a most blessed day! I'll try and keep this short and simple. Basically I made the decision to separate from my ex boyfriend (who I was also engaged to and living with) of 5 years. I left him 5 months ago and I am still struggling to cope. I met someone else...
  4. M

    A “Law” question and Romans 2:14-15

    Hello all, This is my 1st forum post and I’m kind of excited. I would like to share some thoughts and experiences about the Law of God. I would like some feedback, I don’t know if I’m off on this or not and maybe get it cleared up. Here it goes. When I was a child of 3 or 4 years old I was...
  5. tonemonkey

    New Believers, Need To Know - Guilt and Shame

    Hey there! I've been a Christian for 25 years, and have learned a few things along the way. I am by no means an expert and would never claim that the knowledge/wisdom I have came from me - it's straight from the Bible and revelation of the Holy Spirit. This will be my first mini-essay on...
  6. Monna

    Shame and Guilt - differences and similarities

    What is the difference between shame and guilt? Are there commonalities? Do different religions and "faiths" within those religions treat the two as different or the same. In the Christian Bible, when Adam and Eve ate the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, "they both saw...
  7. G

    Help! Lost Emotions, Depersonalization, Religious OCD

    Hello, Please pray for me. I am struggling with emotion numbing. I want to be filled with Christ's love and compassion. I want to be compassionate towards others and do God's will. I recently went through an extreme bout of religious OCD. Including fears about the unpardonable. It...
  8. Tardis911

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    Hi everyone. This is my first post, hopefully I'm in the right place. I'm a new believer... I'm struggling with accepting he fact that He has forgiven my sins. I have done so many awful things, I feel so much guilt and shame. I've heard that once you are saved the feelings of shame will go away...
  9. ChristIsSovereign

    Pride and Lust (Need Prayer)

    God has seemed to open my eyes to two of my chief sins in my life. The LORD cast me down with guilt after I barked at two people for endorsing a Bethel Redding church event and how I behaved was inexcusable. I also struggle with sexual temptation and can really be carried away at the slightest...
  10. fragilewingz

    christian chat group on whatsapp

    hi, as per CF rules i won't be posting the link to the group. but if u are interested in finding people to talk to when experiencing troublesome thoughts, pm me and i will add u to the group... no whatsapp? that's fine.... we can still. chat here about whatever is going thru ur mind...
  11. L

    wisdom needed

    I have been married 10 years. During those 10 years, there have been a lot of issues with many different things. We have 2 kids together. Weve split up several times, both moving on in different relationships. The last time we split (before i came to christ) i was with a man who treated me and...
  12. Christsfreeservant

    Are You Hated?

    Thursday, May 4, 2017, 2:00 a.m. – The Lord Jesus put in mind the song “Were You There?” Speak, Lord, your words to my heart. I read John 15:18-25 (ESV). “If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you. If you were of the world, the world would love you as its own; but...
  13. DeerGlow

    Communion

    I'm baptist, so we don't do communion often, only I'm afraid it's coming soon. I know about 1 Corinthians 11:27, eating unworthily makes you guilty of sinning against Jesus, some people say makes you guilty of Jesus's death, as the people who actually beat Him on the cross were. I'm afraid of...
  14. flipflop2234

    Question about academic integrity

    Hello, this is my first post on this forum so please forgive me if I format poorly. I truly don't know what to do here. To give you context, I am 18 and about to finish highschool. I have cheated plenty of times in the past whether it be a copied assignment here or a formula that was punched in...
  15. crossnote

    Fig Leaves

    Fig Leaves Quick hide, Someone is coming, keep it up, the noise will drown out the 'Voice', ...another party, another fantasy, another toy. 'Pile it on, He draws closer, my spots are beginning to show, my time is short'... Slam! A coffin door... my last hiding place.
  16. M

    Guilt from lying about being virgin

    I need help. I am currently dating the most amazing christian girl who I do believe God has sent to be my wife. Lets call my current girlfriend Liz. Well we met my sophomore year of college, her freshman year, (this was now 2 years ago) and at the time that we met, I had just fallen out of a...
  17. Bkimble001

    Advice to help my Guilt and Anxiety

    I have been all over the Internet looking for answers to my question or a place I could feel safe asking it. I hope to receive some Biblical, kind advice from fellow Christians here. I am a 26-year-old Christian woman who has grown up in the Baptist church, although I identify more as...
  18. A

    I wanted to lead him to Christ but...

    Okay, so I am 18 years old (if that matters) and about a month and a half ago, this guy came up to me in a coffee shop and told me I was pretty and asked for my number. I was caught off-guard so I said yes and he started texting/calling and we started hanging out every so often. His name is Luke...
  19. ilovesendai7

    Confessions of lying

    I lied to my boss a few weeks back. He called me and I didn't answer the phone, but he could see through our security camera system that I was using my phone at the time. He called me out on it and I lied and said that I was searching something for a customer. I'm suffering from guilt now, and I...