christian advice

  1. Lanae

    About my non-brother in Christ at Church

    Joseph (Korean) from harvesters is being an a whole for cussing at me and telling me not to talk to him on kakaotalk. i texted him and said I want to just kill myself and he told me that I never listened to him,i kept bothering him, and touching him. he said that I'm the reason why he doesnt...
  2. InThePottersChamber

    How to look for and feel about God when people gossip about you?

    Although I have grown leaps and bounds in my walk with Christ ever since I first started, I have one teensy problem. I know that when people talk behind our backs, people say that we don't need to worry because we find our value in God and God only. (Of course I can say that I find value in my...
  3. Kaylaherin

    Dealing with a chronic complainer and negative friend

    Hello! So my title is pretty self explanatory. I have a friend who complains just about everyday and she is always negative. I think a bit of a back story might help in this. We have gotten to know each other only through my fiance, they were never close friends but in a way I feel that he...
  4. InThePottersChamber

    Is it wrong to sometimes not be able to live solely for God?

    Hi, I know that God promises us our future spouses, and that almost everyone has one predestined (if you disagree then keep it to yourselves, it's not the point of this thread whether spouses are predetermined or not). Although I have friends, sometimes I can't help but feel lonely and instead...
  5. Kyle William

    Seeking Christian Wife but Doesn't Exist?

    Hi all, I'm new to this forum and need advice, suggestions, just anything at this point. I'm not OK at all. The hole in my heart has become catastrophic and prayer does nothing. I've been darkening in my mind like most existentialists and my soul has become sick. I do not feel love, only...
  6. InThePottersChamber

    What happened? Is this a gift? How do I hone it?

    Through out my life, ever since I was little, I was (and am) very sensitive to the other realm, so to speak. If someone hated me, I can tell because I'll get physically sick, usually a stomach ache. I can tell whether a person is talking about me or not (have confronted and got accurate results)...
  7. Boogaloo

    Dancing With the Devil While Preaching Jesus!

    I wish to share the following and yes please do watch the video it will be beneficial to any Christian, thank you for taking the time! Dancing With the Devil While Preaching Jesus!
  8. A

    I've been feeling unsettled and confused in my relationship

    First I'm so sorry about how long this is. I've been with a guy for almost a year now and he is such a nice guy, we met at church, I'm 2 years older than him and our pastors actually set us up but we have now moved to a different church as we weren't growing in that one. Before we started...
  9. B

    Looking for help with premarital sex struggle and breakups.

    Hello. This is my first real time ever posting anything on a forum, but I'm really looking for some help right now. My first serious girlfriend and I recently broke up after 3 and a half years together. Both of us were virgins at the beginning of it, and neither of us had any serious walk with...
  10. E

    Relationship advice?

    Hello everyone, So I'm aware there's a number of different threads on this site asking for advice with relationship so I thought I'd join in and request some advice and guidance myself! A few months ago, my friend asked me out on a date and I straight away turned him down, and said I wasn't...
  11. Heartofsilver

    Courtship Mistakes

    Hello Community, Recently at work, a middle aged man who works in Produce came up to me while I was doing my job around the store. We will call him G and the other guy N. He told me that he knew someone that I might like to meet who was very religious and who was about my age. I told him that...
  12. Y

    Almost 22. Any advice?

    I'm 21 years old and I've take a couple college courses and I plan on going back this fall but I just don't know if I've gotten confirmation from God on my career path and its caused me to keep procrastinating and even fear going back for a few reasons. I've developed extreme social awkwardness...
  13. D

    When to start dating from a Christian standpoint

    Hello, my name is David, I am new here, I am 14. I joined because I had a question on my mind, and I needed an outside, christian opinion. So, as with some of you, my parents established a no dating rule (maybe anywhere between no dating til 14-18). For me it is no dating until we are 18 years...
  14. K

    Non Christian person doing nice things Vs. a Christian who does nice things?

    What is the difference between a nice person who is not a christian who helps people out Vs. a Christian who helps people out. I struggle with this thinking. Can we (Christians) do nice things for people with out mentioning a single thing about Christ?
  15. sheamiao

    Rooted In Love Of Christ

    The Bible like to compare us as plant. As a plant we need to deeply rooted and grounded inGod's love. We need to do some work every day watering, nourishing, to let the root grow deeper and the stem stronger. Many people experience trauma, Terro, lost some loved one, fail in one area of life...
  16. M

    I love my boyfriend but feel like I'm too young to be married

    Hey guys, I'm 17 will be turning 18 in a few months.. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. In the beginning of our relationship, we were not dedicated to Christ at all and so we did things we were not supposed to do. But 6 months ago, after breaking up over complications...
  17. yahj

    The Thrill of Being a Real Christian

    What is a real Christian? A real Christian is a true believer of Jesus Christ, in His death, burial and resurrection, who has received the indwelling presence of the Holy Spirit and then moves by the power of the Holy Spirit to begin to do the things Jesus said to do. A real Christian does the...
  18. G

    Unrequited love?

    What would be the best way for a Christian to deal with unrequited love? I've been best friends with this person for almost four years and he has been a very good friend to me. Encouraging me, giving me godly advice, uplifting me, praying for me, and me doing the same for him. As best friends we...