Hi all,
Thank you for viewing. I've been reading in Genesis lately, and I recently read about Abraham and it struck me how he slept with his maidservant and eventually married another woman after his wife Sarah died. This really made me upset, because I really dislike infidelity. I grew up with my parents who called themselves Christians, and they cheated on each other and finally ended up divorcing. I guess I've seen infidelity all my life, and from that I made a commitment that I will never do what they did.
I'm only 21, but I have been with my boyfriend John for 1 and a half yrs. I am not serious about marriage right now, but I have been thinking about it for the future. I'm starting to get a bit scared though. John and I are both Christians, but this world is so ugly.. and I'm so scared that one day he be led astray, cheat on me and I would be crushed. I know "God's grace is greater," but I'm still struggling with the fact if John were to become my husband - he could betray me. I couldn't stand the thought of being cheated on and it's probably my worst fear.
John is a great guy after God's heart; but he lied to me the other day, which broke my trust a bit for him. I forgave him and we prayed, but I am still afraid that he somewhat betrayed me. He knows how afraid I am of being cheated on. Is it possible for Christian marriages to REMAIN faithful to the other? With the way this world is today...I'm starting to become hopeless.
I truly appreciate your advice and I thank you all in advance.
Sincerely,
WThank you for viewing. I've been reading in Genesis lately, and I recently read about Abraham and it struck me how he slept with his maidservant and eventually married another woman after his wife Sarah died. This really made me upset, because I really dislike infidelity. I grew up with my parents who called themselves Christians, and they cheated on each other and finally ended up divorcing. I guess I've seen infidelity all my life, and from that I made a commitment that I will never do what they did.
I'm only 21, but I have been with my boyfriend John for 1 and a half yrs. I am not serious about marriage right now, but I have been thinking about it for the future. I'm starting to get a bit scared though. John and I are both Christians, but this world is so ugly.. and I'm so scared that one day he be led astray, cheat on me and I would be crushed. I know "God's grace is greater," but I'm still struggling with the fact if John were to become my husband - he could betray me. I couldn't stand the thought of being cheated on and it's probably my worst fear.
John is a great guy after God's heart; but he lied to me the other day, which broke my trust a bit for him. I forgave him and we prayed, but I am still afraid that he somewhat betrayed me. He knows how afraid I am of being cheated on. Is it possible for Christian marriages to REMAIN faithful to the other? With the way this world is today...I'm starting to become hopeless.
I truly appreciate your advice and I thank you all in advance.
Sincerely,