Why would you say this. Jesus told the disciples the night before that one of them would betray Him and Judas did. It happened. Judas chose what he wanted to do. Even after Jesus was able to prophecy that it would happen. And Judas did the deed.
So how is that he was evaluated before he was born and found unforgivable?
Jesus’ prayer when Jesus identifies Judas Iscariot as the only “son of destruction” in John 17
The Son of Man will go as it is written about him, but woe to that man by whom the Son of Man is betrayed! It would be better for him if he had never been born.” Then Judas, the one who would betray him, said, “Surely not I, Rabbi?” Jesus replied, “You have said it yourself.” (Matthew 26-24-25) (Matthew singles out Judas as the disciple that asks Jesus this question.
Judah’s lack of faith in Jesus as the Messiah can be seen by his attitude when Jesus is anointed with expensive ointments by Mary Magdeline. He considers it a waste. Why? Because he was a thief.
Then Mary took three quarters of a pound of expensive aromatic oil from pure nard and anointed the feet of Jesus. She then wiped his feet dry with her hair. (Now the house was filled with the fragrance of the perfumed oil.) But Judas Iscariot, one of his disciples (the one who was going to betray him) said, “Why wasn’t this oil sold for three hundred silver coins and the money given to the poor?” (Now Judas said this not because he was concerned about the poor, but because he was a thief. As keeper of the money box, he used to steal what was put into it.) So Jesus said, “Leave her alone. She has kept it for the day of my burial. (John 12:3-7)
Here we have a man who believed Jesus unworthy of being anointed with expensive oil. Why? Because he obviously did not consider Jesus anything special or worthy of such adoration or respect. Instead he believed that his need for money to spend on who knows what? was of greater importance. Are we to believe that God did not know that the one who would betray his Son was to be a thief who would have no appreciation for his Son despite having personally observed the miracles that his Son Jesus had performed right in front of his eyes?
What indeed caused Judas to totally ignore the clear evidence of God’s Holy Spirit at work via Jesus-even to the point of the resurrection of the dead as he did twice in the case of Lazarus and the widow's son? Impelled him to ignore the curing of the leprous and the expulsion of demons from the chronically demonically possessed so as to nonchallantly tag Jesus as unworthy of being anointed with expensive oils?
Was it his sharing in the Pharisaic belief and his support of the accusation that Jesus performed such deeds with the aid of the Devil? We are told that all sins are forgiven except sins against the Holy Spirit. Judas seems to have shared that sin with the Pharisees.
Matthew 12:31
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New International Version
And so I tell you, every kind of sin and slander can be forgiven, but blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven.