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Finding Peace of Mind in Troubled Times

If you’re like me you look at the news today and remembering the events of the last five years, you wonder what next? Wars and rumors of wars, race riots, political instability, a pandemic, religious uncertainty, the disintegration of marriage, skyrocketing levels of addiction, suicide, abortion–broken families, broken hearts, broken lives…

If you spend too much time on social media or online news you are having the bad news shipped into your life from around the world instantly. So how to find peace of mind in troubled times?

First thing is pray more. Prayer has practical benefits as well as eternal consequences. Prayer turns your mind to eternal things. You’re focussing on the big picture and knowing that there is a larger and more loving plan for the world–one that transcends the everyday troubles and trials. In fact, that greater plan is always operating in and through the troubles–the Planner always bringing good out of evil.

Second, read the Bible every day. The best way to do this is through the regular, disciplined reading of the Liturgy of the Hours. Morning and Evening Prayer turns your heart and mind away from the news cycle to the Good News cycle. When you read the psalms and the rest of the Scriptures you realize the greater history of mankind has always been one of conflict and battle, sin and repentance, falling and getting up again.

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State department questionable logic on negotiating with Hamas.

#1 What gains would be made negotiating?

Dozens of former Muslims say lying is encouraged. They are to do anything to promote their faith.
This is just anecdote - where is the proof from the actual religion?

Another anecdote
Many people in the UK voted for Boris Johnson - a known liar.
What does that prove?
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Why did people put salt on newborn babies?

Ezekiel 16:

4 And as for your birth, on the day you were born your cord was not cut, nor were you washed with water to cleanse you, nor rubbed with salt, nor wrapped in swaddling cloths.
Ellicott:

The rubbing of the body of the new-born infant with salt, a custom still prevailing in some parts of the east, probably had a symbolical, as well as a supposed physical effect; and is recommended for the latter reason by Galen (De Sanit. i. 7).
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Anciently they rubbed infants with salt to make the skin firm.
A Journal of Medical Humanities:

In many societies, there are traditional practices performed to protect babies from magic, witchcraft, or the evil eye. At first, it may seem that these practices would have no particular effect on health. Some of these traditions bring psychological relief for the family, but some may delay the treatment of a disease or cause harm to the child.
One of the traditional practices performed in parts of Europe and the Middle East is salting of babies. Along with the symbolic and life-giving nature of salt throughout history, salting has been a part of traditional practices for millenia. Homer said salt was a “sacred” substance and Plato described it as “a dear substance of the gods.” Salt thrown into the water is thought to increase its sacred properties, and Dioscorides emphasized the cleansing properties of salt. Galen recommended the salting of newborns to ensure a hard skin and better hygiene. Soranus described newborns being swaddled after sprinkling them with water and salt. Salting is performed as part of rituals of redemption. In the Bible, scrubbing with salt was among the practices recorded immediately after the birth of a baby. This practice is maintained today among some Jewish communities as well as in Syria, Palestine, Jordan, Qatar, North Arabia, western Iran, and Turkey. It has spread to some parts of the Balkans and Greece through the influence of the Turks.

Car Seat Rules Cause Lower Birth Rates in USA

Very few Americans work in agriculture now, historically that was a big part of small town life. The US becoming a non-agricultural society is relatively recent. Prior to WWII, many Americans lived in small towns near farms. It wasn't until after the war that the vast majority of people moved into cities and suburbs.
Thanks for the info.
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Trail Camera Shows ‘Truly Amazing’ Bear – Born with 2-Legs and Walking Tall in West Virginia (WATCH)

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A black bear born without front legs has been sighted more or less thriving in the mountains of West Virginia.

Though not unheard of, it’s wild to be able to see the animal’s natural movement, having been transformed, by consequence of his birth, from a quadrupedal animal to a bipedal animal like us.

“The area he’s in has some of the steepest terrain in the Appalachian mountains,” hunter and outdoor writer Kirk Price wrote on Instagram. “He has no problem getting around.”

Price posted a video on his YouTube channel in 2022 explaining he had been aware that the bear was in the area, and had seen still photos of it from as far back as 2018, but the video was him explaining a face-to-face encounter he had with the animal which he described as “just the toughest, baddest son-of-a-gun.”

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What is the Cause of the Current Housing Shortage?

Here there are houses for sale and rent. Apartments for sale and rent. Even abandoned houses here and there.

We also have a swelling population of homeless as well as many working poor that struggle to make ends meet.

Just on local conditions it seems that the cost of most available places is greater than what most of the people who need a place can afford.

Where I live there isn't really a shortage of housing. There is plenty available. It is just priced higher than those who need/want it can afford.
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California Catholic hospital apologizes after lawsuit claims it denied pregnant woman care

Health care ONLY to save the life of the mother. Clear?
The mother's life in the case we are talking about wasn't in direct danger until it was almost too late to save her life.

A woman's life becomes more dangerous the moment she becomes pregnant. Just being pregnant put her life in more danger that if she were not.

Where do we draw the line to this wide and vague statement that, frankly, isn't clear at all to me. (Or for that matter, any of the doctors in any of the state where these laws apply).

And what moral imperative, oh great Riles, makes the baby's life more important, on spec, than the woman's ?

A mother of 4 who is pregnant has a lot of lives to consider besides the one in her body.

That statement sounds so hard and clear.

It's not.

Look, we're all Catholics here on a Catholic board with rather severe restrictions on this subject. If you can liv

e with "Only to save the life of the mother" you're on great moral ground on this little board.

Unfortunately for me, I was taught to go out and see what was going on and how to do research. Like I said, the worst thing the Benedictine Order ever did to me. That statement to me is meaningless.
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I feel suffering, sadness and disappointment all the time?

I don’t know where’s I’m going with my life.
But God does! :blush:
So I say again, just keep trusting Him, one day at a time.

Our main purpose in life is to love God.
Keep doing that, and I believe He will show you more purpose for your life.
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Gout long term can cause neurodegenerative effects, disease, smaller brain volume and stroke.

Gout can also be a factor in brain cancer as fibroblasts and growth hormones are continuously compensating for the injuries in highly acidic intracranial fluid.

as well as circulating urate crystals can go into the lymphatic system and end up in the water lymphatic system of the eyes. I've been having the Didn't know what it was, until I uped up the sugar and desserts like I was still in my teens and started having darkened vision during up flow of uric concentration.

Uncontrolled gout can cause cataracts, due to continuous eye damage from urate. Also many report that allopurinol only post pones the processes of purine and fructose metabolism and is somewhat unaffective without solid dietary consistancy. It takes months for this stuff to deposit and crystalize through out the body, it'll take months for it to deformalize completely, and have a stable uric blood concentration. Usually people settle for the tip of the iceberg clearing up but never bother with whats still in the water.
Thus the increase in dose.
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Did Jesus give Christian leaders right to use coarse political rhetoric?

A seasoned ministry colleague wrote to me last week asking for assistance. “I need some help with exegesis of Luke 13:31-32,” he said. “I spoke at a conference last week with many pastors who used that passage where Jesus calls Herod a fox as their rationale for using coarse language about Harris/Walz and the other political side. I was quite disturbed by the name calling and mocking from the pulpit, and I reproved them all when it was my turn to speak.”

He continued, “I was shocked that the pastors used that passage to justify their mocking and name calling from the pulpit, citing Jesus as our example. Do you, as a Messianic Jew, have any insight into the historical/contextual usage of ‘fox’ in 33 AD? I need to be able to answer pastor’s defense of their name calling using that passage.”

He then sent me an excellent response compiled by our mutual friend and colleague, Dr. Joseph Mattera.

Dr. Mattera explained, “The term ‘fox’ here carries connotations of craftiness, cunning, and deceit, but also weakness and insignificance compared to a lion or other more powerful animals. In ancient Jewish culture, calling someone a fox could imply that they are untrustworthy, deceptive, and sly, but it was not necessarily the most severe insult. It might also suggest that Herod, despite his political power, is insignificant in God’s larger plan.

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Is Satan The Ruler of This World?

Until Christ’s second coming, this world remains at least partially under Satan’s authority because it remains enmeshed in sin. As 1 John 3:8 reminds us, “He who commits sin is of the devil.” For this reason the New Testament describes Satan variously as “the ruler of this world” (Jn 12:31), “the god of this world” (2 Cor 4:4), and “the prince of the power of the air” (Eph 2:2).

Nevertheless, believers have nothing to fear, since Jesus assures us that the devil is being cast out of this world (see Jn 12:31). Ever since Calvary, the evil one’s power over men has been broken: “[Christ] has delivered us from the dominion of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of his beloved Son” (Col 1:13).

Jesus captures this truth vividly in His parable of the strong man: “When a strong man, fully armed, guards his own palace, his goods are in peace; but when one stronger than he assails him and overcomes him, he takes away his armor in which he trusted, and divides his spoil” (Lk 11:21-22).

The joy of the Gospel consists in the knowledge that Christ is the stronger man who has demolished the strongholds of the devil, liberating the souls caught in his snares. Although Satan remains the god of this world, his power is swiftly waning.

Like the white witch in C. S. Lewis’s The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe, the devil knows his winter is fast melting away. The Cross has sundered his power; hope is in the air. For a little while longer, the spiritual battle continues. But the Good News of the Gospel assures us that the stronger man is in control, and His Kingdom is coming soon.

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No, your moderate amount of evil is not okay

Corey DeAngelis and the problem of a scandalous past​


Corey DeAngelis, the man with the most effective voice for school choice and parental control of education, turns out to have been a gay porn actor. (You probably don’t want to know.)

What interests me about this story is not whether a cause, in this case, school choice and funding policies, can be right even if its proponents are hypocrites or have a terrible past, and it’s not about whether someone with a sketchy past can repent and work on the side of right (of course they can and should).

It’s about whether depraved acts can be okay for adults and not okay for kids. We need to figure this out, because our moral confusion is harming our children, even as we claim to be rescuing them.

Some things are good for adults, but not for children. Some book or movie themes are dark and children should be shielded from them; but they are not bad in themselves. We can follow Tolstoy’s Anna Karenina along her path to destruction through sin, but it’s not a story we want to tell children; it would deprive them of their peace, so important to their development. Some stories are dark through and through. Everyone should avoid them and their authors should be shunned until they change their ways.

Alcohol is acceptable for adults and not for children. A 200 lb. man can drink a few glasses of wine, but children shouldn’t be imbibing. And we ought to agree that drunkenness is not acceptable at any age.

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An extraordinary statement from the world’s Orthodox leaders

Yesterday’s CWN headlines included a news story that our readers might have passed over lightly. In case they did, let me explain why it was worthy of notice.

Representatives of the Orthodox churches and the Oriental Orthodox churches met to discuss the cause of Christian unity. A causal reader might ask: So what? At first glance this looks like one more story about a meeting of ecumenical “experts,” a meeting likely to end in a statement that will express laudable goals but produce no concrete results. And since this was a “preparatory” meeting, intended to spur further ecumenical talks, I can easily understand skepticism about its immediate news value. But bear with me, while I explain the significance of the story.

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What is Holy Matrimony — and why should it be protected as the primordial sacrament?

Today, Dr. Michael Dauphinais is joined by John Clark, author, political speech writer, and columnist for the National Catholic Register, to discuss the importance of recognizing the sacramentality of marriage. They address themes such as the primary purpose of marriage, its indissolubility, and how it was instituted. In their conversation, they also explore the insights from John Clark's book "Betrayed without a Kiss: Defending Marriage after Years of Failed Leadership in the Church," delving into the challenges facing marriage today and the need for strong leadership in its defense.

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St. Francis dropped everything after hearing this strange voice

Today is Oct. 4, the memorial of St. Francis of Assisi.

In the readings for today’s feast, Jesus says: “Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart; and you will find rest for yourselves. For my yoke is easy, and my burden light.”

Dreaming of becoming a great knight, Francis of Assisi was on his way to join papal troops in Apulia, on the East coast of Italy. In the middle of the night, a voice asked Francis, “Who is more important, the servant or the Master?” The question is a provocative one. It meant: Will you serve the things of this world or the things of heaven? Francis answered that “the Master” is more important. The voice then asked, “Why then do you seek the servant instead of the Master?”

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Autistic Catholics find a voice: New support group fosters connection and belonging

Several Catholics have banded together to create a support system for Catholics on the autism spectrum. Autistic Catholics, an online resource and support group, kicked off this week with the group’s first online meeting.

Allen Obie John Smith, a Catholic convert who lives in Ridgway, Colorado, with his wife, is the founding executive director of Autistic Catholics. Inspired by his own experience with autism, Smith — who goes by his middle name, John — founded the group this past summer to help build fellowship among autistic Catholics while giving them a voice.

“I think my own experience of feeling alone as a diagnosed autistic person really contributed the most to the founding, and I knew I wasn’t alone in my feeling of isolation,” Smith told CNA.

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'Journey to Bethlehem' director to release thriller about spiritual warfare: 'The devil does his best work in Hollywood'

NASHVILLE, Tenn. — Adam Anders has revealed he’s working on a thriller focused on spiritual warfare, a topic the "Rock of Ages" director said he’s become even more concerned about after working in Hollywood for decades, a place where “the devil does his best work.”

The 48-year-old director, who is also behind "Journey to Bethlehem" and “Dirty Dancing,” told The Christian Post that his next venture, set to be released by Lionsgate, departs from his usual music-driven projects and tackles a rarely explored topic in Hollywood — spiritual battles between good and evil.

“My next project is a thriller with Lionsgate next about spiritual warfare,” he said. “It’s going to be a huge movie. It's not a musical, which is crazy, but a great challenge. I’m very excited. I'm just writing it right now.”

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