Looking to become parents
- By ariekitten
- Married Couples
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My husband and I were tested for marriage for STDs, and other general health screenings. We are both healthy, and clear. The OBGYN for high-risk said because of my rare blood disorder I am (obviously high-risk) more prone to miscarriages, which I believe we've had a couple. My mother died birthing me, but the doctor brought her back. All of my sisters (4 sisters) nearly died having their children, but have 11 healthy kids between them. My family is national study case for this blood disorder, but I've never even had one problem with it, and I don't even register as needing the high-risk doctor, except for on paper.
My husband's mom is a natural doctor, but even as a Christian she is skeptical about him having kids, so I cannot just ask her for advice. I feel like when God's ready (as He doesn't just promise willy-nilly), He will break through any/all issues we face, even medically. As a Christian, I know He works miracles. I've seen bodies healed out of nowhere. We know someone who was clinically dead and suddenly wasn't (after hours in a body bag). I don't feel like it's biblical to my understanding of faith for me to begin searching every detail of my marriage or our bodies trying to find a flaw, but this is the answer to your question - No, we are healthy. There is no reason according to our specialist why we shouldn't be able to conceive/carry/birth healthy children to our heart's content.
I sometimes wonder if it isn't something spiritually clogging the works, but...I do pray constantly. Thank you for your prayers, too.
My husband's mom is a natural doctor, but even as a Christian she is skeptical about him having kids, so I cannot just ask her for advice. I feel like when God's ready (as He doesn't just promise willy-nilly), He will break through any/all issues we face, even medically. As a Christian, I know He works miracles. I've seen bodies healed out of nowhere. We know someone who was clinically dead and suddenly wasn't (after hours in a body bag). I don't feel like it's biblical to my understanding of faith for me to begin searching every detail of my marriage or our bodies trying to find a flaw, but this is the answer to your question - No, we are healthy. There is no reason according to our specialist why we shouldn't be able to conceive/carry/birth healthy children to our heart's content.
I sometimes wonder if it isn't something spiritually clogging the works, but...I do pray constantly. Thank you for your prayers, too.
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