Do we have vocations to marriage and singleness?
- By RileyG
- One Bread, One Body - Catholic
- 1 Replies
As a single person, I consider it my vocation.
Upvote
0
Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.
Amen, my brother in Christ!Glory to God!
We must never forget the power of the True Cross. September 14th is a special feast day for me every year.
all non-christians are idol worshipers & their good deeds belongs to idols.Christian who does not know what the flesh is, thinking that all evil and sin comes from the flesh. And thought that good and kind acts come from the Spirit of God. Therefore, ignorant Christian often thinks that sinning (disobedience and breaking the law) is from the flesh. Hence, most ignorant Christians associate behaviour as an indication of repentance (good behaviour equals a Christian who has repented and bad behaviour equals a false Christian who was not saved).
Have you considered this? A non-Christian (gentile) from all other religions who has never accepted Jesus, never born again, does NOT have the Spirit of God and still the sinner is capable of doing charitable works, good works, kind acts and sacrifice self for others. From this, we can conclude that the flesh (which is part of the unsaved sinner) is capable of EVIL and GOOD works.
If good works is a sign of repentance and salvation, doesn’t that qualify a non-Christian who has done lots of good work entry into Heaven? But the answer is NO. According to the bible, nothing good comes from the flesh.
Romans 7:18 For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not.
And that includes the righteous deeds and acts from the flesh.
Isaiah 64:6 All of us have become like one who is unclean, and all OUR RIGHTEOUS ACTS ARE LIKE FILTHY RAGS; we all shrivel up like a leaf, and like the wind our sins sweep us away
The flesh is like a two-edged sword, sin/disobedience on one edge and good works/righteous acts on the other edge.
When you are sinning, you will feel condemn and distant yourself from God and church.
When you are doing good works and righteous, you will feel good, pride will start to increase. And you will stop depending on God until your next sin or fall.
Both sides of the flesh will cut like a two-edged sword.
What is the Spirit of God?
The Spirit of God is a totally foreign entity that is not part of us. The spirit of God has a will of its own. When a person is born again and received the Holy Spirit, it indwells the Christian.
Ephesians 1:13-14 And you also were included in Christ when you heard the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation. When you believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God’s possession—to the praise of his glory.
The Spirit of God and the flesh are two different entities in a Christian. They are constantly at war with each other.
Galatians 5:17 For the flesh lusts against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; and these are contrary to one another, so that you do not do the things that you wish.
How to know that you are operating in the Flesh or the Spirit?
The flesh is part of us. When we operate in the flesh, we will be depending on ourselves.
Why does the flesh sins? It is due to the lack of faith in God. When we depend on ourselves, we take the faith in God and put it on ourselves.
Romans 14:23 But whoever has doubts is condemned if they eat, because their eating is not from faith; and EVERYTHING THAT DOES NOT COME FROM FAITH IS SIN.
Because of the lack of faith in God, we will start to doubt (whether God will or even willing to provide?).
Doubting lead to worry (we will start to formulate our own plans).
Worrying lead to fear (when our plans failed).
Fear lead to sin (we will use unorthodox methods such as lying, cheating, stealing and etc).
Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
Doubting is unbelieving and it ends in fear. A doubtful and fearful heart is the mother and the start of sins. In Revelation 21:8, God puts the fearful and unbelieving as the first group into hell.
Are you feeling weary and burdened to please God? If yes, then you are depending on your flesh (self-effort, self-determination, self-sacrifice and yourself) to obey. Everything depending on self is of the flesh.
During Jesus’ ministry on earth (except when he was carrying our sins), there was NO mention of Jesus feeling worried, anxious, stressed and fearful when he was facing an impossible situation with no solution. Instead, Jesus was always restful, relaxed, calm and gentle.
Why it is so? It is because Jesus did not depend on himself. Jesus did NOT plan ahead (Remember, the Holy Spirit is a different entity from our mind and body. If we plan ahead, we are depending on our own intelligence and abilities).
Mark 13:11 But when they arrest you and deliver you up, do not worry beforehand, or premeditate what you will speak. But whatever is given you in that hour, speak that; for it is not you who speak, but the Holy Spirit.
The only preparation work that Jesus did was to pray. Jesus flowed with the Spirit of God and did what he saw his Father did through the Spirit. If God the Father completed the task, there is no doubt that it will be completed physically when we embark on the assigned task.
John 5:19 Then Jesus answered and said to them, “Most assuredly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of Himself, but what He sees the Father do; for whatever He does, the Son also does in like manner.
Even though Jesus’ 3.5 years of ministry on earth was tough and impossible (in the eye of man), he said that his yoke is easy and burden is light. Jesus flowed with the Spirit of God and did what was assigned to him by God (there are many good works to be done but not all good works are assigned) and he did it with the empowerment of the Spirit of God (when God assign a task, he will go in advance to make preparation in the situation and hearts of the people involved.)
Have you removed your old yoke (the yoke of the law which is designed to be uphold and obey by the flesh) and put on Jesus’ yoke (the yoke of grace which is lots of prayer and flowing with the Holy Spirit and empowerment from God)?
Matthew 11:28-30 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
The Archbishop of Miami, Thomas Wenski, joined by two dozen bikers from the Knights of Columbus — a Catholic fraternal group committed to American patriotism to which I belong — gathered outside the Florida immigrant detention center nicknamed Alligator Alcatraz.
They gathered to pray the rosary. Nothing wrong with that. However, they’re also complaining that no chaplain services have been provided to detainees. And that’s a concern worth addressing.
In Biden’s last year in office, some 400,000 young immigrants were simply lost in our country, sent to unvetted sponsors.Did the Knights do this for January 6 detainees? Do they do it for Operation Rescue detainees?
Dozens of J6 prisoners were held in solitary confinement for months for nonviolent offenses before trial. From our bishops: crickets. …
We’re witnessing levels of distraction no one’s ever seen before.Link on reclassification:
Trump considers reclassifying marijuana as less dangerous drug: report | Fox Business
President Donald Trump said at a fundraiser he was weighing whether to reclassify marijuana as a less dangerous drug.www.foxbusiness.com
A pastor is reportedly the subject of a county attorney general’s investigation stemming from a church raffle that offered a new C8-generation Chevrolet Corvette Stingray as the grand prize. According to a report from the Erie Times-News, the pastor fabricated the name of the raffle winner, as well as the winners of several other smaller prizes.
The Erie County District Attorney’s Office is investigating Miceli on allegations that the 42-year-old rigged the Corvette raffle, tampered with its records and committed theft. According to the Erie Times-News, Miceli “admitted to publicly falsifying the results of the grand prize winner” during the investigation.
Miceli allegedly also made up some of the winners for the $500 prizes, according to affidavits for some of the search warrants. In an interview with detectives, Miceli reportedly admitted to making up the names of four of the $500 winners where no name was associated with the winning number — so, he personally chose the winners, who were allegedly either family friends or his favorite parishioners.
As for the $50,000 grand prize, Miceli admitted to moving the money from the car raffle account to another account, according to the Erie Times-News; he claims this other account is an interest-bearing account that is under the church’s name.
I’m reminded of one of the Martyrs of Gorkum, who were killed by Calvinist Protestants because they refused to deny transubstantiation. One of them, a priest, was an infamous rake and fornicator. They expected him to cave in easily. But when he was challenged to denounce his Faith he said “I was a fornicator, but I’m not a heretic” and they killed him.Father during confession said in his opinion, the Holy Spirit is a woman. “She gives us birth in baptism, she will help you.” [Jackass!] His other remarks were well taken but I was so appalled I couldn’t wait to get out of there. Not to mention, it was face-to-face and no other option — just two chairs at one side of the sanctuary. He also stopped me saying the act of contrition because I was being rote. [Jackass!]
I think his words of absolution were correct but I still wonder. Do you think I am absolved? Is he actually a heretic?
I accidentally hit the ‘haha’ response. I corrected it to ‘friendly’, which is accurate. Praying for your continued healing.I'm not OK. My fault or not.
I don't know how often this happens to people who are grieving but the last thing that a grieving person wants is for people to leave them. I know it's only online people but I think that it could end up bleeding into real life. I have been accused of not putting in effort or taking advice, etc. I think that the worst thing that can happen to a person when they're grieving is to lose a friend.
I wrote this back to the person:
Hi G. Ever since my dad, my behavior has changed for the worse. I am more lonely yet more derelict in responding to people. I have been unable to understand my behavior. My life is lonely, empty, and has no purpose. I have been unable to word my problems. I will have to express a disagreement (well, you would probably disagree, that is) that the last thing I need when grieving is for someone to "leave" me, but I suppose that with the way my behavior is portrayed, you think I don't need anyone. I can't understand my own self and I feel basically like a zombie who complains of loneliness but has become too lazy and inert to respond to anyone. It does hurt to see you "leave" because I feel that anyone leaving (no matter how sporadic the content) is not beneficial but I don't want to look like I'm forcing anyone to be my friend. This is the second person who has been like this with me; there must be something wrong with me.
---------------
Sadly, he's kind of right. What am I even doing, wallowing in loneliness yet not maintaining contact. You don't get it and neither do I.
No. The Quran is demonic. Here is why:
Given that Islam is an Abrahamic religion, there is a connection with the God of Christians and Jews. But what exactly is that connection?
When the Islamic Jesus comes as foretold in Islamic prophecy, this is what he will say:
1. That he never died on the cross.
2. He never claimed to be the son of god.
3. That Islam is the only true religion.
4. That all people should convert to Islam and submit to the Mahdi.
Christians know the (Islamic) Mahdi as the antichrist and the Islamic Jesus as the false prophet.
Back to that connection issue. IMO, the reason for the existence of Islam is for angels to have their religion. And by angels, I mean demons. God and man got their religions. Now it's the turn of angels. Who can create the better religion, God or demons? Prove it. Let's run Christianity and Islam in parallel and see what happens. Christianity won. So the God of Christians and Jews facilitated the creation of Islam in order for demons to make their case.
As punishment for abandoning and/or ignoring Christianity, the world will get Islam instead.
Today is August 10, the Nineteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time.
We read at today’s Mass, “Be sure of this: if the master of the house had known the hour when the thief was coming, he would not have let his house be broken into. You also must be prepared, for at an hour you do not expect, the Son of Man will come” (Lk 12:39-40).
Happy Sunday, friends. Today, as we continue reflecting on the theme of thirst, I want to shift our focus slightly. So far, we’ve meditated on what it means to long for God. But what is it that hinders that longing? What is the great enemy of spiritual thirst?
One word: complacency.
It may not be a classic term from the tradition, but I think it names the spiritual condition that dulls our desire for God. Complacency is a kind of interior apathy — a voice that whispers, “I’ve done enough. I’m fine where I am.”
Continued below.
![]()
Holy desire or hollow routine?
When faith becomes routine, we lose our thirst for God, yet simple practices can rekindle holy longing and spiritual life.www.oursundayvisitor.com
The more complete description of this condition is found HERE, in vol 1 of Garrigou-Lagrange's great work, The Three Ages of the Interior Life. The point is, without the Seven Gifts of the Holy Spirit to activate and begin to perfect the Virtues, the soul is left bounded within the "natural man", a chasm separating him from the supernatural Life for which we are intended.Some souls, because of their negligence or spiritual sloth, do not pass from the age of beginners to that of proficients. These are retarded souls; in the spiritual life they are like abnormal children, who do not happily pass through the crisis of adolescence and who, though they do not remain children, never reach the full development of maturity. Thus these retarded souls belong neither among beginners nor among proficients. Unfortunately they are numerous.