My God wants me to love Him of my own free will, and I don't see that contradicted in the Bible. Matthew 12:30-31 30 "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’[
a] 31 The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’[
b] There is no commandment greater than these.”
That does not speak to unbelievers, that speaks to those who are followers of Christ. How do you know how much God has loved you so you can love others if you haven’t already been the recipient of God’s love?
I used to believe the same thing because I went to a free will church. Then I sat down and read the Bible and was surprised that it didn’t mention free will anywhere but did repeatedly say that it is God who is in charge of ALL areas of salvation. From Him choosing us, to Him drawing us to Himself, to Him giving us saving faith, to Him preserving us to the end.
Hebrews 12:1-2 (NASB95) 1 Therefore, since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, 2 fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.