If I understand your system, it goes by who is called and no-one can bind the spirit.
No, it's a long process; no one says "you're called by God and we're not allowed to argue with that". The person may well be called by God to do something, and thinks that 'something' is ministry as a Presbyter (Minister) in the Methodist church. The church may not agree, so the person will be turned down. That applies to men and women equally.
I know a man that happened to; he is now a Minister in another denomination.
My point was; no one who says "I believe God may be calling me to do this", is told "ok, fine; here's a dog collar".
It's a long process involving interview, discernment, prayer, more interviews, more prayer.
My view is God has already told us in Pauls books, who is eligible to be called and going beyond that is sin because it's disobedience. You will say your interpretation is different. Ok.
It is, because he hasn't told us who is "eligible". Just as he never had a checklist for who might be "eligible" to be a prophet, or apostle.
As I said earlier, God chooses whoever he pleases, and he chooses the weak to shame the strong.
Thankfully for us, it's never God who says, "you're too young/old/disabled to serve me; you're not eligible." It's people who say that. To our shame, we judge and discriminate between people who have all been made in the image of God - and tell God that he may not choose someone to do his will and further his kingdom.
Thankfully, also, this is not a salvation issue.
Just don't be too disappointed when you meet former female Ministers in heaven.