- Sep 24, 2017
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- Married
Today has been better, her attitude wise, our conversation. I asked to see her phone, she willingly gave it to me.l with no hesitation. I went through it and found nothing. She asked me what I was doing and I told her I was going through her phone and she was like why didn't you say that's why you needed my phone? And I told her it didn't matter really, she broke the trust and this is what I needed to put another brick in the wall of my trust in her. I told her she was protective of her phone at a point so why would I tell you I'm going to go through it? She told me she would have fathered I just tell her that I want to go through it. She asked me if I found anything and I said no and she said there's nothing she's hiding.
I looked in her contacts, I typed in the guys number to see if it was hidden under another name like "mom" or something, nothing. I looked to see if she was texting him, called him, any pictures etc. nothing.
I told my wife I'm not going to be in a relationship that I constantly have to dig thru your phone. I told her this is what I needed to move past this suspicion she created in my mind. I told her when we're apart of when her phone is locked and she's asleep the enemy is telling me that you're up to something in your phone. I told her she needs to understand she created this mistrust by talking to another guy and catching feelings. I did tell her I'm not going to be snooping in her phone everyday and doing all that because I refuse to, but if the trust is broken again she is resetting us to the start.
She understood but she's still being a little sarcastic in some responses which irritates me. i.e. I told her I'm not going to snoop in her phone every day and she said "oh we know that"
She said what about her trust of me, and I said huh? I didn't break your trust. You can trust me. I feel she was just trying to spin this on to me.
I looked in her contacts, I typed in the guys number to see if it was hidden under another name like "mom" or something, nothing. I looked to see if she was texting him, called him, any pictures etc. nothing.
I told my wife I'm not going to be in a relationship that I constantly have to dig thru your phone. I told her this is what I needed to move past this suspicion she created in my mind. I told her when we're apart of when her phone is locked and she's asleep the enemy is telling me that you're up to something in your phone. I told her she needs to understand she created this mistrust by talking to another guy and catching feelings. I did tell her I'm not going to be snooping in her phone everyday and doing all that because I refuse to, but if the trust is broken again she is resetting us to the start.
She understood but she's still being a little sarcastic in some responses which irritates me. i.e. I told her I'm not going to snoop in her phone every day and she said "oh we know that"
She said what about her trust of me, and I said huh? I didn't break your trust. You can trust me. I feel she was just trying to spin this on to me.
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