marriage problems

Hi everyone, I'm new here. I got married at a young age and I've been married to my husband for 7 years now. When we celebrated our 7th anniversary, I started thinking back on our first years of marriage. We barely had any premarital counseling, and boy did we feel it. We both have struggled...

Hi everyone, I'm new here! This is my first post. To make a long story somewhat short, my wife (24) and I (26) are approaching our 3 year anniversary. Everything was running smooth, at least it appeared that way until the first week of sept when everything collapsed. My wife told me about an...

For well over ten years, Gerri D Smith passionately writes and publishes self-help articles, reports, and more for anyone going through an unhappy marriage. Know there is help. Whether you are going through an unhappy time in your life, in your marriage, or at your work place, Gerri’s...

Hi all. Am glad to introduce myself. My name is Shilpa and am from India. I here to discuss about my marriage life. hoping to get some help here. thank you

My husband has had emotional affairs during our marriage and has physically cheated once during the dating time while in a serious committed relationship (which was disclosed to the me 9 years into our marriage). While he says he's never crossed the line physically during the marriage, there...

Hi everyone! So I've been praying and getting back in church and reading my bible to help me get on the right path again, but my husband has lost hope that I am going to change or that I'm going to stay on this path. I have a really bad anger problem, I've had it all my life and after we have...

We just got Married few weeks ago and things have been rough for us. My wife complains of pain during sex and she asked me if we could stop having sex. She suggests that we be a married couple that NEVER have sex and I gave her an honest answer that I cannot do that. I cannot wait till I get...

I am going to try to keep this short as possible.. but I have lost all hope in my marriage and need to vent it out. My wife and I were very happy when we were dating. We abstained from sex (it was difficult but we did it) but we were very physically into each other. We were engaged after a...

My wife still comes in to pick up the kids for school and drop them off after they get out. She still sticks around to help our youngest with homework, cooks and washes clothes from time to time. We laugh and talk. She's still adamant about divorce. I discovered that the lady that she's...

Well I have been married for four years and it has been very terrible. I'm not claiming perfection, but I refuse to take any blame for this marriage. I have handle things wrong by saying things out of anger is all I have done wrong. I asked my wife "other then the times we argue about the...

Hi, I joined this forum with the hope of getting advice ... my husband and I have been married a little over a year and it feels like everything is falling apart. I'm the only Christian in my family (I'm an adult convert) and I feel as though I lost my church community when I got married. We...

I'm looking for help with how to show love to my husband. I believe he is suffering from depression, but he says that he is not and refuses to go to a doctor. Here are some of my concerns: -he complains of being tired and lacking energy all the time -he hasn't had a job for the past 6 months -he...

hey everyone. I've been married for 2 years and nothing has been working out for us very well. He's been deployed and away for training for about 17 months out of those two years. In the beginning (before my salvation in Christ) when we were dating life was perfect. We never fought, we actually...

The problem is that I can’t reason with my wife and she’s a very bitter and tormented person. Our marriage counselor told me that he believes that she has never matured past her teenage years. When something is brought up that she doesn’t like she immediately shuts down or becomes defensive. She...

I am new here, I just stumbled across this sight and its really what I need. I'm to embarrassed to talk to my friends and most of them are not Christians and will immediately fight with me about why I didn't leave my husband a long time ago. But I need to let this out, I need some one to give...

I have a friend. Known him for 25+ years. He's been youth minister to my children. He's been my roommate. He's been my friend for a LONG time. He is even in my will. He's been in youth ministry for 20+ years. He's influenced a TON of people FOR the Kingdom. He's lead youth, over the years, in a...