marriage advice

  1. bèlla

    Points to Ponder

    Marital Gems for Men and Women I don't know if this exists but I wanted a space for relational affirming content for Christian men and women who desire marriage. This is a place of honor and respect and light heartedness. Some remarks may be unsettling or oppose your beliefs. Be willing to...
  2. bèlla

    10 Things Men Need in a Woman

    I've had difficulty finding suitable content in the trad sphere. It's a mixed bag and the messages aren't always biblically sound or the delivery is not to my liking. But I happened upon two people on a platform I rarely visit and they're what I've been seeking. This little nugget was worthy...
  3. bèlla

    The 4 A's

    I stumbled upon this message online and wanted to query the men. Since we're blessed in that regard I hope you're willing to weigh in and share your thoughts. The author is married and a Christian. This is what she wrote. Do you agree with her statement? If yes, what appeals and why does it...
  4. Jesusthekingofking

    Unequally yoked in Corinthian doesn't mean marriage

    It's good many churches taught Christian should be serious in their marriage or even dating, because we can easily influenced by our life partner. But it's too narrowed minded when a pastor warn about dating non Christian. From a practical and statistic perspective, there's a big gender gap btw...
  5. J

    Submission, Housework, Laziness, BPD, Marriage questions/discussion

    Have been married for approx 15 years, first (and ONLY! marriage). Absolutely love my wife to bits and would give my life for her within a second. We have a wonderful daughter who is the joy of my life and am thankful for God brining them into my life. Background First i would like to say that...
  6. T

    Christian married to non-Christian advice

    My husband and I have been married for 7 years now. We started dating 15 years ago, got engaged after 4 years, married 3 yrs later. I was far from God when I met him. We lived in sin. Our relationship was tumultuous and a big part of that was an ex of his that he in his words "had been...
  7. E

    Newly wed husband. Wife and I are both artists. unintentionally NSFW question.

    I am almost certain this is fine but I also want to paint my wife making alluring poses, gestures, movements, etc. we are newlywed. just under two months now. She's completely fine with it and likes to tease me like crazy. (I like that too). It's not just nude paintings, yeah I do normal nudes...
  8. C

    I need guidance for my broken marriage. Is my husband commiting adultery?

    I will try my best to make this as short as possible but I desperately need help. Late last year I got into an affair (no sex was invloved). It lasted about a week. At first my husband seemed willing to make things work but over the course of about 3 or so months he decided he wanted a divorce...
  9. A

    Adultery - Unable to Hear a clear answer from God - Help Please

    (Edited) Hi and thank your for reading this. I’m married and when I went to court to get married with him, my husband told me he was divorced, this marriage was not an actual marriage (he married his friend do do her a favor, as she had helped him in the past so he returned the favor)… I...
  10. A

    Seeking Guidance Please - Dealing with Resentment

    Hi everyone , I am married to a non believer, who has a daughter but doesn’t live with us. Met her when she was 4. Her mother passed away, when she was 8 and now she’s 10 years old. She lives with her grandmother. She’s hours away and we make an effort to go see her multiple times a year...
  11. F

    My wife loves me, but has never been in love with me

    I've been married now for almost 19 years. Me and my wife were both pretty young when we got married at only 21 years old. Our marriage has been through some serious ups and downs over the years. I'll admit that the downs are largely my fault as I've not always been the type of man I wanted to...
  12. J

    Choosing a church

    My husband and I have attended a small OPC church for 8 years. We love the teaching, the worship, and the people are wonderful. That said, there are not a lot of families with young children, and I have felt lonely for a long time. After our daughter was born, I wanted to switch small groups...
  13. S

    why did god dangle my prayer request?

    I've been praying for almost 5 years now for a spouse. I found a man, who fit ALL of my prayer requests, and I mean not 1 one but ALL of them. I was shocked how to the T God answered my spousal prayers because I only asked for 3 things, but was flexible on everything else- of things i was...
  14. B

    Toxic marriage & infidelity. What now?

    I will try not to make this run long. In short I'm the wayward spouse. I've been married 14 years, 3 young children. I've been a stay at home parent while my spouse has a career. I've worked a few small jobs over the years but my spouse wanted me to stay home and raise the kids. Our marriage...
  15. A

    Sexual sin in a marriage

    My life’s a mess and it’s all my fault. My wife and I got involved in sexual sin a few years ago and it’s caused a lot of pain on both sides, but the thrill prevented us from stopping. Recently God started working on my heart and I started feeling convection. We were both saved at the beginning...
  16. I

    Is it abuse or was I selfish. Christian marriage advice /opinion needed

    Hello Please give me your opinion on this. Was I wrong? I ask here because I don't share what happens with my marriage to anyone, except yesterday I shared for the very first time with my neice. So I have her opinion but my husband repeatedly states to me often that my family are losers, that...
  17. Alisa7777777

    [MOVED] Marriage: addiction cycle.. any advice?

    Hi all! I’ve been married to a screen-addicted spouse for over four years now. He’s been addicted the whole time, and unwilling to own up to having any sort of problem the whole four years. Because of this, and coupled with pregnancy hormones, our first year of marriage was a disaster. But I...
  18. BornNew

    I revealed my past to my husband

    Hi. First of all, thank you for clicking on my post. I need your advice or maybe your perspective on what I am about to tell everyone here. I am married. It has been more than year since I got married. My husband and I are both Christians. Before we started dating, my husband was not that...
  19. A

    Marriage Advice

    Hello, and thank you in advance! I got pregnant with my son a little under a year of dating this guy. Two days after I gave birth, we got married. Two days before I gave birth, my then boyfriend just turned 18. It was a busy week. (He also graduated high school a few days before) Anyway...
  20. JohnTh

    How to find a good spouse?

    How to find a good spouse? A gathering of sayings from elders and holy fathers upon this very important topic. Enjoy!