It isn't right for people to cheat I get that, but aren't churches supposed to be hospitals for sinners? It's not right to act high and mighty and then go out and commit horrible acta, come back repent and repesnt, but churches are sanctuaries for the lost. If they come to church and really mean to get right it's not up to me to judge.
Did you know that the Apostle Paul had to battle with sin everyday? in Romans 7:14-26 NIV
14We know that the law is spiritual; but I am unspiritual, sold as a slave to sin.
15I do not understand what I do.
For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. 16And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good.
17As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me. 18For I know that good itself does not dwell in me, that is, in my sinful nature.
c For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out.
19For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing.
20Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it.
21So I find this law at work: Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me.
22For in my inner being I delight in God’s law;
23but I see another law at work in me, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within me.
24What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death?
25Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord!
So then, I myself in my mind am a slave to God’s law, but in my sinful nature
d a slave to the law of sin.
My point is....every Christian battles the temptation to sin on a daily basis and Jesus said even if we "think it" it is a sin. I have to repent of that one often especially that rude driver ahead of me who just cut me off. (LOL)
You worry way too much about others and their sinning/going to church......that's Gods job and He is fully staffed with help. So I am pretty sure He doesn't need you pointing out to Him who is sinning because frankly we all are.