What's on your mind?

[DragonFox91]

Look at the numbers. You’re nearly 30. If you meet someone your age and wait 5 years she’s 35 when you marry. You have to consider fertility.

Definitely. Which is why I'm annoyed at my situation.

Yes, but avoid numbers. Talk about pacing and realistic time frames for marriage. Most weddings take a year to plan. In 2 years you should know if she’s the one. 1 year engagement with planning puts you at 3.

Okay!

She mentioned the practical side. But there’s an emotional and spiritual one too. If God is in the union seal the deal. Don’t drag it out. You reach a point in the relationship where emotional need requires deeper relating. You need a wife not a girlfriend.

Hmmm.

@DragonFox91 Here ya go! That will help.

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I'm already wearing a mask over 1/2 my face. That'll complete the look I guess. I tell my cousin that I should just get a full face-mask.

Does that cover your eyes completely? Is that a sleep-mask? I feel like eyes would have to be painted onto it.

 

[DragonFox91]

I spelled it out. Skin and body care. Fashion and beauty are my specialties. Food and decor are secondaries. It’s my job to keep him well coiffed, well fed, and well cared for.

So you wouldn't expect him to have that in place before you?

They have traditional values and want a partner who shares them.

you got it dude.

 

[bèlla]

Does that cover your eyes completely? Is that a sleep-mask? I feel like eyes would have to be painted onto it.

LOL You put it in the freezer and wear it for a bit in the morning to reduce the swelling and appearance of bags.

 

[Isaiah 2:22]

Why do you & Isaiah think 2 years is a good amount?

1-2 years just seems right to me, personally. I'm not sure why exactly. Maybe I would feel differently if I actually got into a relationship too. ...6 months later... *church bells* LOL

 

[Isaiah 2:22]

I'm already wearing a mask over 1/2 my face. That'll complete the look I guess. I tell my cousin that I should just get a full face-mask.

Does that cover your eyes completely? Is that a sleep-mask? I feel like eyes would have to be painted onto it.

LOLOLOLOLOL HAHAHA

 

[DragonFox91]

LOL You put it in the freezer and wear it for a bit in the morning to reduce the swelling and appearance of bags.

weird. Does it have to come in purple? It looks girly, like something my wife would wear (what wife ha ha)

 

[Isaiah 2:22]

weird. Does it have to come in purple? It looks girly, like something my wife would wear (what wife ha ha)

Well, no one's gonna see it since you wear it while you sleep. Do the dust mites in your pillow think purple looks girly on you or something?

EDIT: I didn't see that you edited your post adding a part about your hypothetical wife. Now my stupid joke isn't half as funny. How could you?!

 

[bèlla]

So you wouldn't expect him to have that in place before you?

Everyone has some measure of personal care according to preference. But most aren’t doing it for a living, professionally trained, or privy to new developments.

That’s my forte. He gets great service and frees up time to do something else. I handle it for him.

 

[bèlla]

weird. Does it have to come in purple? It looks girly, like something my wife would wear (what wife ha ha)

We suffer to be beautiful.

I’ll check another color.

 

[DragonFox91]

Everyone has some measure of personal care according to preference. But most aren’t doing it for a living, professionally trained, or privy to new developments.

That’s my forte. He gets great service and frees up time to do something else. I handle it for him.

Interesting. I think that's unique of you.

Well, no one's gonna see it since you wear it while you sleep. Do the dust mites in your pillow think purple looks girly on you or something?

The dust mites on the pillow next to mine? Yes, & there's quite a few of them at this point.

I suppose I could tap into my feminine side. I'll probably need that to some extent w/ wife/girlfriend? Or no?

 

[bèlla]

Here’s one.

 

[Isaiah 2:22]

The dust mites on the pillow next to mine? Yes, & there's quite a few of them at this point.

LOLOLOL I like these sorts of posts from you much more than the ones where you bemoan your lot in life. Though I know you didn't join these forums to be funny. But they are fun to read!

I suppose I could tap into my feminine side. I'll probably need that to some extent w/ wife/girlfriend? Or no?

Couldn't hurt. Though I'm not sure how far a purple eye mask will get you in this area.

 

[Isaiah 2:22]

Here’s one.

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This one would just make him look like a robot. Not sure the dust mites would appreciate it.

 

[bèlla]

Interesting. I think that's unique of you.

I like taking care of my guy. It’s satisfying. My calling and hobbies lean towards personal care and domesticity. He’s lucky.

 

[bèlla]

This one would just make him look like a robot. Not sure the dust mites would appreciate it.

The purple one is the best but he’s being picky!

 

[DragonFox91]

This one would just make him look like a robot. Not sure the dust mites would appreciate it.

I don't think it's like a robot. The V's are kind of strange, but it's interesting they put them in the part directly over the eye..

I like taking care of my guy. It’s satisfying. My calling and hobbies lean towards personal care and domesticity. He’s lucky.

No kidding!!!!!

LOLOLOL I like these sorts of posts from you much more than the ones where you bemoan your lot in life. Though I know you didn't join these forums to be funny. But they are fun to read!

That one was too easy. Maybe someday they'll go away, do you think?

Couldn't hurt. Though I'm not sure how far a purple eye mask will get you in this area.

When she decks the house out in purple, maybe?

Or I forget my mask & she only has a girly purple one for me to use & I have to wear that? I'm always forgetting my mask too so that'd be a BIG problem!!! (I'm talking the virus masks here)

Hopefully by the time I get one, this virus is long gone.

 

[bèlla]

I don't think it's like a robot. The V's are kind of strange, but it's interesting they put them in the part directly over the eye..

The majority are froufrou. You rejected them. *lol*

No kidding!!!!!

That’s our secret.

 

[Isaiah 2:22]

That one was too easy. Maybe someday they'll go away, do you think?

The dust mites? I hope so, for their sake. LOL Just kidding. You seem like a great guy. I'm sure they'll go away one day.

 

[MrMoe]

From all of @bèlla's avatar pics, I imagine Bella to be a sophisticated and classy Audrey Hepburn type French woman who loves fashion and wears only the finest designer threads. She lives in a small apartment in quiet, old fashioned street full of brightly coloured old fashioned buildings that looks like a postcard painting. It has a balcony decorated with potted flowers and has a perfect view of the Eiffel Tower. She owns a rare, expensive female cat that is just as sophisticated as her. Her cat will only eat the freshest fish caught that same day. She hates canned food and sleeps on the bed with Bella no matter how much Bella complains, her cat just ignores her and displays it's chin to show it's contempt like a typical stuck up upper class cat. Bella works at a bakery that's been in her family for generations and makes the most delicious croissants in the area. She donates any leftovers to local charities. At night she likes to take long, leisurely strolls by the waterside and chatting with the friendly locals.

 

[SarahsKnight]

I prefer a clean face. Most men shave. Some have hair removal. I dare not ask! But I really like it!!! *winks @SarahsKnight*

Working on it.

Just seven or eight more hours of treatment, maybe.