What's on your mind?

[DragonFox91]

The dust mites? I hope so, for their sake. LOL Just kidding. You seem like a great guy. I'm sure they'll go away one day.

They seem to be permanent

I do wash my sheets BTW, but they always come back.

 

[DragonFox91]

The majority are froufrou. You rejected them. *lol*

Hmm, so men probably aren't buying them in quantities for them to make more masculine versions, so they'll have bags under their eyes, meaning I'll have a leg up on them.

That’s our secret.

 

[DragonFox91]

Christians who practice what they preach generally don't want to delay it longer than necessary for reasons I probably don't have to spell out to you. I think the temptation to sin would get worse and worse the longer you delayed the marriage.

2-3 years waiting for that seems like it'd be easy enough

 

[DragonFox91]

For face I like some scruff. My friend says it looks too dirty, but everyone else I talk to really likes it. You just have to keep it trimmed very, very, very short.

 

[bèlla]

From all of @bèlla's avatar pics, I imagine Bella to be a sophisticated and classy Audrey Hepburn type French woman who loves fashion and wears only the finest designer threads.

You’re surprisingly close. Audrey was the first style icon I really liked and I loved her class. Fashion wise, my ideal is elegant. Well tailored clothing that’s feminine and unfussy. I like classic accessories. I love French designers. Chanel and Dior are my favorites. And the signature red lips. Can’t leave that out.

She lives in a small apartment in quiet, old fashioned street full of brightly coloured old fashioned buildings that looks like a postcard painting. It has a balcony decorated with potted flowers and has a perfect view of the Eiffel Tower.

I live on a quiet street in the Parisian equivalent of the 7th Arrondissement. There’s a mix of skyscrapers, brownstones with huge picture windows and old mansions. Lake and city views are the norm. It looks pretty at night.

She owns a rare, expensive female cat that is just as sophisticated as her. Her cat will only eat the freshest fish caught that same day. She hates canned food and sleeps on the bed with Bella no matter how much Bella complains, her cat just ignores her and displays it's chin to show it's contempt like a typical stuck up upper class cat.

I’ve never owned a pet in my adult years. But I favor French dog breeds. Especially the standard poodle and coton de tulear. Coton’s are rare. I’d name one LouLou of course and spoil her a lot.

Bella works at a bakery that's been in her family for generations and makes the most delicious croissants in the area.

I haven’t worked in a bakery but I did a stint at a wine shop while taking culinary classes. Our pastries and baguettes were provided by a French patisserie. I’ve maintained the practice and purchase all bread and treats from a French bakery in the neighborhood.

She donates any leftovers to local charities. At night she likes to take long, leisurely strolls by the waterside and chatting with the friendly locals.

I enjoy lakeside strolls in warmer months.

I have a deep affinity for French food, fashion and culture. You nailed it!

 

[bèlla]

They seem to be permanent

I do wash my sheets BTW, but they always come back.

Vacuum the mattress and purchase mattress and pillow covers. Wash/dry clean the pillows. If washing, put them in the dryer. The heat kills bugs. Sprinkle both with tea tree oil. I use Aura Cacia. They sell it at Whole Foods and Amazon. It’s a little strong but it works. Let it dry and add the covers.

Get a HEPA air purifier. I use this brand and got it from Costco. They include 1 year of filters. I have one in every room.

If the problem is extreme you can use Diatomaceous earth. It’s a natural remedy for bed bugs and dust mites. Vacuum and clean. Wear gloves before using and open the windows. Sprinkle some along the baseboard near the bed, under it, and on the mattress and pillows. Let it sit for an hour. Cover everything and you’ll be fine.

 

[bèlla]

Hmm, so men probably aren't buying them in quantities for them to make more masculine versions, so they'll have bags under their eyes, meaning I'll have a leg up on them.

Exactly! Most men aren’t into skin care. A monthly facial and massage would be good for you. They’re stress relievers and the pampering helps. It may help your anxiety.

 

[bèlla]

Working on it.

Just seven or eight more hours of treatment, maybe.

Wow, you’re getting there! Is it still painful or less so now?

 

[DragonFox91]

Exactly! Most men aren’t into skin care. A monthly facial and massage would be good for you. They’re stress relievers and the pampering helps. It may help your anxiety.

No face massage unless it makes my face better.

Vacuum the mattress and purchase mattress and pillow covers. Wash/dry clean the pillows. If washing, put them in the dryer. The heat kills bugs. Sprinkle both with tea tree oil. I use Aura Cacia. They sell it at Whole Foods and Amazon. It’s a little strong but it works. Let it dry and add the covers.

Get a HEPA air purifier. I use this brand and got it from Costco. They include 1 year of filters. I have one in every room.

If the problem is extreme you can use Diatomaceous earth. It’s a natural remedy for bed bugs and dust mites. Vacuum and clean. Wear gloves before using and open the windows. Sprinkle some along the baseboard near the bed, under it, and on the mattress and pillows. Let it sit for an hour. Cover everything and you’ll be fine.

It's a joke. Dust mites on the empty pillow by mine.

 

[bèlla]

No face massage unless it makes my face better.

It's a joke. Dust mites on the empty pillow by mine.

Facials include massage and they’d treat the bags. A body massage would relax you.

No worries, the information will be useful for someone!

 

[DragonFox91]

I want to go on a date tonight!

 

[bèlla]

For face I like some scruff. My friend says it looks too dirty, but everyone else I talk to really likes it. You just have to keep it trimmed very, very, very short.

I think a clean face looks polished and elegant. Scruff is more relaxed in my opinion. Then again, I like Euro chic on men. A slimmer fitted cut commonly seen in Italy. My idea of relaxed still looks posh.

 

[DragonFox91]

I think a clean face looks polished and elegant. Scruff is more relaxed in my opinion. Then again, I like Euro chic on men. A slimmer fitted cut commonly seen in Italy. My idea of relaxed still looks posh.

I'm not sure what you mean by that, but if I you mean what I think you mean, then that makes sense why people I talk to like it. It gives me a fun vibe. & if it's trimmed really short, still shows that I care for it & just don't shave.

 

[bèlla]

I'm not sure what you mean by that, but if I you mean what I think you mean, then that makes sense why people I talk to like it. It gives me a fun vibe. & if it's trimmed really short, still shows that I care for it & just don't shave.

I view facial hair as less formal. Keep in mind, I earn a living through aesthetics. I'm more critical than most (not negative per se). I notice things others might ignore. Like symmetry, line, and bone structure. I know how to accentuate the good and downplay less appealing features.

I'm less concerned about personal likes when it conflicts with what looks best. If facial hair is flattering and anchors the face that's fine. I wouldn't encourage someone to adopt the look because they don't want to shave. Especially if it lessens their attractiveness.

Person A looks more relaxed to my eye. I love his attire. But the beard changes the look.

Person B is wearing relaxed clothing. The absence of facial hair lends an air of polish. They're both wearing designer clothes. But the vibe is different. I prefer the second. You can add punch to simple items through your face and hair.

 

[DragonFox91]

I like both looks. They both give off a fun vibe.

Person A looks like he likes going to bars & partying
Person B looks like a snowboarder

The facial hair / lack thereof goes good w/ the looks they're going for.

 

[DragonFox91]

I should probably work on my wardrobe. But what's the point? I'm not even meeting single girls, it doesn't seem to be an issue b/c people generally seem to like me. Advice I get is "just keep trying."

 

[SarahsKnight]

Wow, you’re getting there! Is it still painful or less so now?

Never really painful so much as irritating.

 

[SarahsKnight]

Exactly! Most men aren’t into skin care. A monthly facial and massage would be good for you. They’re stress relievers and the pampering helps. It may help your anxiety.

Definitely do a foot massage once every week or two, myself. ^-^

 

[bèlla]

Definitely do a foot massage once every week or two, myself. ^-^

One more confession and I'll hit the deck!

 

[bèlla]

Never really painful so much as irritating.

The irritation will be worth the outcome.