How many times must God say he wants all men to be saved (given the chance/choice of salvation).
There is a difference between our perspective and God's. From our perspective we received Christ through our own free personal choice, as according to the Scriptures. When Jesus gave the invitation to His disciples to "follow me", they chose to follow Him. They did not go under duress. And yet, after the Day of Pentecost when they were filled with the Spirit, they learned that in reality Jesus had chosen them. So it seems that from our perspective, we choose to receive and follow Christ, but from God's perspective, He chose us from the foundation of the world. How He can choose us, and yet we received Christ because we chose to, is the mystery.
What we find difficult to understand is that the invitation to believe on Christ is given to all without exception, and some choose to receive Christ and others reject Him. Then as we are enlightened by the Holy Spirit, we learn that those who chose to receive Christ were chosen by God before the foundation of the world and written into the Book of Life, long before Jesus died on the cross for their sin. And we learn that those who rejected Christ through their own personal choice, were predestined before the foundation of the world to be reprobate to spend eternity in hell. This has been the confusion among theologians since the Day of Pentecost. Calvin came up with his theology, then Arminius penned his works saying that Calvin was wrong, and theologians on either side have argued the point ever since.
Multitudes received Christ under Puritan Calvinism, and when John Wesley came along with his Arminian teaching about free will and entire sanctification by faith, multitudes also received Christ. It seemed that God wasn't too concerned about working with either Calvinism or Arminianism. The New England Calvinist Presbyterians refused to do evangelism because they believed that God had to bring people to Christ Himself, yet Jonathan Edwards won thousands to Christ through his pastoral preaching, while Charles Finney departed from the Calvinist non-evangelism by openly inviting people to receive Christ, and he won similarly thousands to Christ.
I don't think that the Holy Spirit is limited to one particular theology in order to bring people to Christ either through direct conviction or as the result of a person's free will choice. This is how Jonathan Edwards just doing pastoral preaching on Sundays brought many to Christ, and George Whitefield, encouraging people to make their personal choice to receive Christ also won many to Christ. Incidentally, Billy Graham used George Whitefield's method of mass evangelism to present the Gospel, and Whitefield was a Calvinist Methodist. Go figure.
What verse does the horrible doctrine of "no free will", rest on if not Romans 9? How many verses do you really have up your sleeve? That the Church Fathers have not already discredited? Or I have offered a counterargument?
These Church Fathers, that you seem to not even look at. Were still seeing the wonderful workings of the Holy Spirit. As We see from their discourse. And no more than 1 generation separated from the Apostles.
Others have foreknowledge of things to come: they see visions, and utter prophetic expressions. Others still, heal the sick by laying their hands upon them, and they are made whole. Yea, moreover, as I have said, the dead even have been raised up, and remained among us for many years. And what shall I more say? It is not possible to name the number of the gifts which the Church, [scattered] throughout the whole world, has received from God
That is what I said in my text. It is a picture of the promise and has nothing to do with man's individual salvation.