Alright, since you guys can't seem to get off your high and mighty pedestal and seem bent on insisting Christians can absolutely do no wrong and you have no prior obligation to make the religion appear appealing or at the very least, not hypocritical, then you get the full story. I wasn't going to do this, since I know it's not on topic, I was going to give a quick summary. But you all chose to jump all over it.
Who said that Christians could do no wrong? How many times do I have to say tha Christians will continue to sin, BUT(and this is the key), ALL of the sin that a Christian will ever commit or has ever committed is forgiven by Jesus Christ. It is as though the Christian never sinned. That is the gift of salvation that came through God's amazing gace and saved all the sorry wretches who have ever been saved.
I had been going to church for about 10 years. Around the time I started charter school I came to this forum and many others, and began debating, and ran into a lot of unsavory Christians. I began to open my eyes and notice even those who follow god aren't the most godly people in the world.
That's true. But as you've been told, Christians aren't perfect. They continue to sin. But after they have been created anew and the Holy Spirit resides inside, their want tos should start to change. This is the Holy SPirit reshaping them into the image of God while doing away with the stuff that does not look like God.
It's a process and it takes time.
I was still a Christian for 3 years after this, even though I had dissociated with the name "Christian" because of the connotations it had in the field - but I still believed. It wasn't until just before I started college I began to foster some doubts.
Like I siad, a topic for another thread. The devil himself believes and he is getting tossed into the lake of fire.
So I started to turn to people for support, and answers to questions - and got literally none. I got no personal support but rather mindlessly quoting Bible verses and pre-recorded lectures. There was nothing personal there. So I started studying on my own, finding things that - from an objective standpoint - didn't make sense. Went back, trying to figure these things out, and the only answer I could ever get was "Well God works in mysterious ways".
I'm sorry that the church let you down. But GOD has a prescribed order in which things must be done. If you want the truth, then seek the One who IS the Truth. Where men have failed you, GOD is up to the task.
Stop looking at men as you have already confessed to doing A LOT, and start looking to GOD.
And then I realized - if God works in mysterious ways, how am I supposed to communicate with him? Why would god give us so many earthly helper guides but then expect us to be dedicated to HIM?
The word of God says Trust in the LORD with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
6 in all your ways submit to him,
and he will make your paths straight Proverbs 3:5-6
e gives His discernement to those who have trusted Him. He sends disciples to those who need discipling and teaching.
There is at no time that you should place sinful men who walk the same sinful ground that you do ahead of HOLY GOD.
To me, the whole "IT'S BETWEEN YOU AND GOD" is just an excuse, and you guys just proved it. Because you could've said that once and be done. Instead of you have incessantly responded to every little thing, patted each other on the back, and done everything BUT leave it between me and god - you've gone out of your way to get between me and god with your insistence.
Here's the deal. GOD HIMSELf has given us a Great Commission to take His Gospel to Jerusalem, Judeah, samaria and the outermost parts. we are to give yu the Good News that points to him.
The Bible says
12 For there is no difference between Jew and Gentilethe same Lord is Lord of all and richly blesses all who call on him, 13 for, Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.
14 How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them? 15 And how can anyone preach unless they are sent? As it is written: How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news! Romans 10:12-15
We are COMMANDED to that which points you to Christ. And without fail, the truth will generally offend.
There is no "between you and god", zero, everything is communicated through another person, through the Bible, or through your own conscious.
The only way to come to Christ is by yourself. It is a personal decision.
You hear about what you're supposed to view as moral through your pastor.
You read about how you're supposed to act through the Bible.
If the pastor is preaching God's word, that's what you should hear. God gave you His word as a guide for how those ho ae HOLy are supposed to behave.
You pray, but I've heard those prayers, and it's all one way conversation.
Prayer is supposed to be you talking to God. God will in turn, answer when He is ready to. You will generally get a Yes, No, or not yet.
God answes prayers all the time. SOme folks just don't acknowledge His answer as such.
I tried having a "relationship" with god and it took ten years for me to realize I never had a relationship with him - I had a relationship with my church and myself and had been convinced to believe that this was a relationship with god, when such a thing never existed.
But this is to what I was referring. You were never a Christian as you just admitted. You went to a church and partook of the programs. That did not make you a Christian anymore than sitting yourself in a garage makes you a car.
Hence, when those people who I had built a relationship with started to show their true colors, my relationship with them faded, and so went my relationship with "god" as well.
Here is a little caveat that I teach all of my Sunday School kids: Every relationship that you enter is to be a reflection of your relationship with Christ.
If you don't have a relationship with Christ, then you will struggle in all of your other relationships.
So, how about instead of picking on the little girl from California just because she confessed she left the Christian faith, and trying to belittle her because she says it's because of how people acted, trying to judge the real reasons when you don't know her, don't know her background, don't know what she's seen or how she feels, you go fix the true, recognizable problem of people in YOUR faith giving YOUR faith the bad name it has.
I'm not picking. I'm trying to show you what you admitted which was that you have NEVER been in a relationship with Jesus Christ. You were in a relationship with some folks at a church. And when they failed your expectations, the house of cards collapsed.
The Bible says
Do not put your trust in princes,
in human beings, who cannot save.
4 When their spirit departs, they return to the ground;
on that very day their plans come to nothing.
Psalm 146:3-4
Maybe you were dealing with a bunch of folks who also didn't have a relationship with Christ. You were there with them and didn't have a relationship with Him. So maybe they didn't either. As such, they may have been acting EXACTLY the way unsaved people should be expected to act.
Because I don't much appreciate being told how I think by strangers on the Internet who have never met me based on a single sentence - especially when it's under the guise you put up. You are the reasons I can never believe in anything like god again - because I know the truth. There are those who truly believe. And there are those who believe just so that can feel superior to everyone else.
You have got to be an American Democrat.
And that is not meant as a put down. But rather to say that American Democrats have a tendency to blame everybody else for what THEY have done.
YOU and YOU ALONE are responsible for what you believe or don't believe. And as much as it assuages your feelings to believe that someone else is to blame, the onus of belief falls right back on YOUR shoulders.
When you stand before God in judgment, He isn't gonna ask about what someone else did or didn't do. He's going to judge YOU based upon what YOU did/did not do.
And that applies for EVERYONE...even little girls from California.