Okay, I'm going to try to be nice about this. First of all, it's one thing if you want to give other guys tips on how to attract a lady, but let's not make this about people telling the opposite gender basically how to be attractive. You said you don't desire for anyone to be insulted, but I guarantee that you have already broken your own rule, especially with #4. There is already an immense amount of pressure on women to look thinner and conform to the culture's standards of beauty. Let's not perpetuate it. If this is about how other women could attract you personally, that's one thing, but the title of the thread is about how to attract the "opposite gender."
Second, your OP basically assumes that women on this forum want to know how they can be attractive for you and other guys. That's an awfully big assumption to make, and you know what happens when you assume.
Third, I am going to offer you some advice on how to be more attractive. Treat women with the same amount of respect you would like to be treated with. Your list basically assumes that women have to somehow strike a balance between looking too high maintenance and too casual in order to be attractive, that they don't make an effort to look their best, that they are too heavy, and that they dress like tramps. Your list is all about appearances and it is entirely shallow. There is enough hate in Singles being shown toward women. I have had it communicated to me personally how shallow, insulting, and belittling the men in Singles have been as far as things they have said about women. Let's not add to it. Yes, physical attraction is necessary for a relationship, but your list does not include any requirements for a lot of guys to find a woman attractive, and I guarantee the assumptions you are making about the women here are insulting to them.
And something to keep in mind--women aren't interested in attracting shallow guys, so it's probably best to work on not being one yourself.
