I don't know if this was supposed to be a temporary taste of grace, the first week after becoming a believer I cannot recount any sin for a whole week and a half.
Well, here's the thing: God brings us over time into a greater and greater understanding of His holiness and as He does, we discover that we are sinful in ways we never before realized that we were. However free of sin, then, that we think we are, God will bring us - if we let Him - to the place where we see that sin hides in us in corners we never even knew existed. And this revelation of our sinfulness never ends this side of the grave. So, while you might not have sinned for a week in any way you could recognize, understand that sin was nonetheless in you.
After that, I wilfully sinned and thought it was ok to do. Then it was like I hit a wall and had to overcome sin on my own now.
Brother, you can't overcome sin on your own. Thinking that you can is going to lead you into a life of frustration and spiritual defeat. Your victory over sin has been won for you by Christ. A daily experience of that victory is yours as you surrender to the will and way of the Spirit (
Romans 12:1; James 4:6-7) in your life and live in the light of your co-crucifixion with Christ (see
Galatians 2:20;
Romans 6).
So I am stalled where I struggle with the flesh, I can say I am much better than I was before I was a believer but I'm not sure why this spree ended. Could it have been a temporary taste of the power of grace?
It ended because it was not real. God has a different way for you to walk with Him, a way that requires constant dependence upon Him, moment-by-moment surrender to His will and way, and an appropriation of the things that are yours in Christ.
2 Peter 1:2-4
2 Grace and peace be multiplied unto you through the knowledge of God, and of Jesus our Lord,
3 According as his divine power has given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who has called us to glory and virtue:
4 Whereby are given unto us exceeding great and precious promises: that by these you might be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust.
I confessed my sins, and I was able to overcome them again, unfortunately, I was tempted and deliberately sinned again. This is Month 3.
If you want consistent victory over sin, here's the means to such a life:
2 Corinthians 10:3-5
3 For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh.
4 For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds,
5 casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ,
For the Christian, there are three basic – and vital - elements to victorious Christian living:
1).
The Word of Truth:
Psalms 119:11
11 Your word I have hidden in my heart, That I might not sin against You!
2 Timothy 3:16-17 (NKJV)
16 All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness,
17 that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work.
Ephesians 6:17
17 And take...the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God;
Holy Scripture is vital in the fight against temptation and sin. King David was not mistaken when he drew a direct connection between an intimate knowledge of God's Word and success in avoiding sin. Scripture was Jesus' first line of defense when Satan tempted him in the wilderness (
Matt. 4:1-11). Every time he was tempted, Jesus said the same thing:
"It is written..." The Word of God tells you what is true about God, about you - and about sin. Scripture exposes Satan's lying temptations for what they are and pierces through them with the truth which sets us free. The Bible is the sole offensive weapon God has given us in the spiritual armor we are to wear each day. We must, if we are to have any victory over the Enemy and the “law of sin in our members” (
Ro. 7:23), follow God's commands to
memorize His word (
Ps. 119:11; Prov. 3:1-3; Col. 3:16a),
meditate upon it (
Ps. 1; 119:48; Phil. 4:8), and
obey it (
Matt. 7:21; Ja. 2:26)!
2).
The Power of God:
You cannot be "holy as God is holy" in your own strength. In fact, God doesn't want you to
try to be holy, He wants you to
let Him be holy in and through you. Your job is to get out of His way, to submit to His will and way and be a vessel that He can use (
2 Ti. 2:19-21). No amount of Bible memorization or quoting of Scripture in the midst of temptation will help you if you aren't living in full submission to God. Satan and/or the impulses of our own flesh cannot be properly and effectively resisted from a position of independence from God. We must
first submit to God and
then we are in the right place to resist the devil.
Philippians 2:13
13 for it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure.
Romans 6:12-13
12 Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, that you should obey it in the lusts thereof.
13 Neither yield you your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin: but yield yourselves unto God, as those that are alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness unto God.
Romans 12:1
1 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service.
James 4:6-7
6 But He gives more grace. Therefore He says: "God resists the proud, But gives grace to the humble."
7 Therefore submit to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.
Christ described being his disciple in terms of a branch on a vine (
Jn. 15:4, 5). He said that a branch, so long as it stays connected to the vine, will bear fruit. The branch doesn't have to fight and strain to do so, however; it doesn't grip the vine with all its might and quiver with the strain of sucking the sap out of it; it doesn't work hard to force fruit from itself. No, all that is required of the branch is that it remain in intimate and continual connection with the vine. And as it does, the life-giving, fruit-producing sap of the vine flows into the branch, enlarging it and producing
its fruit
through the branch.
A believer who is abiding in the Vine, who is living in constant, conscious surrender to, and union with, Christ, is one in whom the flow of the transforming power of God moves unimpeded. Such a person will find victory over sin a natural and inevitable consequence of their submitted communion with God.
3).
The Armor of Righteousness:
Sin cuts us off from the power and full fellowship of God. (
Ps. 34:16; Isa. 59:2; Ja. 4:4) If you don't keep short accounts with God, you will soon find yourself spiritually weak and easy prey for temptation. When you sin, as soon as you sin, confess it (
1Jn. 1:9) and move on. You are running a race of sorts spiritually. Does a runner who wants to finish the race well, perhaps to win it, bemoan his situation and remain down when he has fallen? Absolutely not! There is no time to waste in a race! He gets right back up and continues to run. And so must the believer who has fallen into sin. Consider the apostle Paul's words:
Hebrews 12:1
1 Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,
Philippians 3:12-14
12 Not that I have already attained, or am already perfected; but I press on, that I may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has also laid hold of me.
13 Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead,
14 I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.
Too often, believers think they must grieve their sin and condemn themselves before God so that He will forgive them; they must show themselves, by the degree of their upset over their sin,
worthy of God's forgiveness. But this is to attempt to earn God's forgiveness and thus to contribute to the perfect atoning work of Christ on the cross! Certainly, a believer ought to feel sorrow over their sin (
Ja. 4:8-10), but never with the view to making themselves thereby worthy of God's forgiveness. “Jesus paid it all,” the old hymn says;
there is nothing that remains for us to do to obtain God's forgiveness. And so, when we sin, we confess it to God so that the forgiveness
that is already ours in Christ may be applied to us. Having done so, all that remains is to resume the “race” and “press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.”
The Bottom Line:
Although there are three factors that have been emphasized as vital to living in victory over sin, they all rest upon what Paul explains in his letter to the Philippians:
Philippians 2:13
13 for it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure.
It is because the believer has been indwelt by the Holy Spirit and by him made both willing and able to do God's will that the believer hungers for the word of God, and desires to submit to the will and way of God, and is eager to keep short accounts with Him. It is because the believer has been indwelt by the Holy Spirit that these desires may be positively acted upon. The Holy Spirit is the power source of the Christian life, working in and through the believer to fulfill God's will His way. There is, then, no genuinely born-again child of God who cannot live a victorious Christian life. It is their spiritual birthright and ought increasingly to be the daily experience of every true disciple of Christ.
Jude 1:24-25
24 Now to Him who is able to keep you from stumbling, And to present you faultless Before the presence of His glory with exceeding joy,
25 To God our Savior, Who alone is wise, Be glory and majesty, Dominion and power, Both now and forever. Amen.
