While it is true that not everyone is saved by hellfire preaching it is also true that not every one is saved by God is love preaching. What did Jesus say?
Matthew 13:41-42, 49-50 “The Son of Man will send his angels, and they will gather out of his kingdom all causes of sin and all law-breakers, and throw them into the fiery furnace. In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth. So it will be at the end of the age. The angels will come out and separate the evil from the righteous and throw them into the fiery furnace. In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.”
Now why would Jesus, who is the epitomy of love say something like this? Jesus also said,
"Are not five sparrows sold for two cents? And yet not one of them is forgotten before God. "Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Do not fear; you are of more value than many sparrows. (NAS, Luke 12:6-7)
Take a look at John 3:16. God loves us. BUT God also punishes the wicked. We as believers have to be able to preach the whole gospel, not just all of it. John 3:16 preaches the whole message. God loves us, but he also condemns us for our wickedness.
16 “For God so loved the world,that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes inhim should not perish but have eternal life. 17 For God did not send his Son into theworld to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.18 Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe iscondemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God.19 And this is the judgment:
qthe light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their works were evil. 20 For everyone who doeswicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should beexposed. 21 But whoever
vdoes what is true comes to the light, so that it may be clearlyseen that his works have been carried out in God.”
Some people will be saved, simply by hearing that Jesus loves them and died for them so they can have life and have it more abundantly. While others will be saved by hearing about their sin and wickedness and how it separates them from God.
Neither part of the message should be erased. Why did Jesus die for us? It was not JUST to give us eternal life, but it was also so that we could escape hell. There are two parts to this message. We are wrong to leave one of them out, even if it is uncomfortable.