Is there something wrong with me?

[sweetlambofgod]

Take it from a man who has looked at a lot of women, so I think I am an experienced judge, you are good looking.

Am I?

 

[God_follower]

yes

 

[winglovesall]

I would rather look inside people's personality than attraction!

 

[mina]

What makes everyone here think I am beautiful? :o

Cause you look like a model

 

[sweetlambofgod]

yes

were u answering my question?

 

[fungku]

which one are you

 

[JPPT1974]

I would rather look inside people's personality than attraction!

Agree with you right there my friend!

 

[sweetlambofgod]

which one are you

2nd from the left

 

[bogie]

Why do I feel that I cannot get a boyfriend because I am not pretty? I keep telling myself that if I lost weight, got my scars removed, if I had bigger breasts, normal hearing, no mole on my neck, and nice hair someone would like me. All the wrong guys like me, guys that are weird. I don't know why I feel that a lot of guys only like girls for their beauty.

Mo' there's nothing wrong with you at all, I think patience is key when it comes to relationships. Think about it, if you we're like totally the hottest girl on the planet all the guys would like you for the wrong reasons. The defination of beauty in Christ's terms is completely different than that of MTV and all those teen mags we see.

 

[Fatolia]

Okay...here goes nothing...

God has blessed you with an exotic flair,
And a talent to take care of your hair.
Your defined cheeks and small lips,
Mask you in mystery that I cannot quite grip.

Your golden skin reminds me of what I once chased,
But monetary riches would dwarf in the presence of your face.
If your voice is as delicate as your head,
Then my jaw would hit the floor and eyelids spread.

A person with it all, takes much for granted
But one who lacks, appreciates all that's there
Though you may have lost hearing in one ear
I'd know the other one would listen all the more.

A man seeks a woman to complete him,
If God finds you someone, you're only a half of a whole
So don't let your face sink so grim
Because your true man won't leave you out in the cold.

If you have a heart that's as beautiful as your eyes,
Then don't worry, you'll be the envy of all the land.
Do not fear, friend, for Jesus is in your life.
Let him be the guider of your hand.


That's my take at it...anyone else?

 

[fungku]

*grabs a piece of paper and writes something on it*

*holds it up for all to see*

10

 

[AmericanGirl]

Hey, there's nothing wrong with you! (to the op) And anyway, most of the girls I know are always getting weird guys asking them out. I think weird guys feel that they're duty bound to ask out every girl they meet

 

[winglovesall]

What do you mean by "weirdness" -- because everybody is different. I've been called "weird" all of my life by my family -- just wondering...

There's no such thing called "normality"

 

[Pyrogenesis]

Finally, between work and database maintainance I've been waiting 2 days to post this:

What makes everyone here think I am beautiful?

Because beauty is what shines through the skin.

I've seen girls that others say are 'really hot' (I hate that description) without a trace of beauty because of the ugliness of their spirit, and I've seen girls that the world calls 'ugly' shine with purity and Godliness so beautiful as to take your breath away.

True beauty shines from the heart and transforms a girl into something more; to a man with Godly eyes, it's impossible for a girl who shines with God's light to be anything but beautiful (And just for the record, you're pretty and beautiful ).

 

[Love&Pain]

2nd from the left

You are beautiful!

 

[Love&Pain]

Cause you look like a model

I do? In real life I am not model material at all. I am the kind of girl who is considered tough. I grew up playing sports with my two brothers. I have scars to prove the daring stuff I did in my life. I am an adventurous person who loves to know how things work like computers. I love fixing computers! I was a tom boy growing up, always want to help my dad fix cars or clean the yard. I hate doing chores. :o My mom tells me, "You are a girl, you should be doing this." I don't like stereotypes. My cousin always says, "If a man can make a mess he can clean it up." When I get married or if I ever do I want to have equal roles. One day he does laundry and I mow the lawn, the next time we switch.

 

[Love&Pain]

Okay...here goes nothing...

God has blessed you with an exotic flair,
And a talent to take care of your hair.
Your defined cheeks and small lips,
Mask you in mystery that I cannot quite grip.

Your golden skin reminds me of what I once chased,
But monetary riches would dwarf in the presence of your face.
If your voice is as delicate as your head,
Then my jaw would hit the floor and eyelids spread.

A person with it all, takes much for granted
But one who lacks, appreciates all that's there
Though you may have lost hearing in one ear
I'd know the other one would listen all the more.

A man seeks a woman to complete him,
If God finds you someone, you're only a half of a whole
So don't let your face sink so grim
Because your true man won't leave you out in the cold.

If you have a heart that's as beautiful as your eyes,
Then don't worry, you'll be the envy of all the land.
Do not fear, friend, for Jesus is in your life.
Let him be the guider of your hand.


That's my take at it...anyone else?

Thank you! I loved the poem. I felt emotional when I read it. It touched my heart. You put real thought into it. I appreciate it, you make me feel special. You are a great man of God, the kind of man that I would love to marry someday. When I see you, I see Jesus. Your gentle words, your Godly wisdom, and you love shine through you. I listen to your voice, and your words sink into my heart, your words touch my spirit and move me. You are a man of faith and hope, who puts others before himself. A man who gives but doesn't expect to anything in return. God has truly blessed you and He has many more blessings to give you in your life. Continue to walk in faith with Him by your side. Thank you for being a friend and a brother to me.

 

[Love&Pain]

What do you mean by "weirdness" -- because everybody is different. I've been called "weird" all of my life by my family -- just wondering...

There's no such thing called "normality"

The weird guys that have liked me in the past: 1. Jairo: suicidal. 2. John: Stalker 3: Marcus: bad hygiene 4: Rodney: drug addict 5: Ray: sex addict

 

[Silver Speak]

The weird guys that have liked me in the past: 1. Jairo: suicidal. 2. John: Stalker 3: Marcus: bad hygiene 4: Rodney: drug addict 5: Ray: sex addict

That's a little harsh..

Anyway, be yourself. You don't have to fit a stereotype.

 

[Sketcher]

The weird guys that have liked me in the past: 1. Jairo: suicidal. 2. John: Stalker 3: Marcus: bad hygiene 4: Rodney: drug addict 5: Ray: sex addict

You can do better than that and you deserve better than that. Just DO NOT RUSH into a relationship. Your wounds cannot be healed in a dating/courtship/marraige context. Good friends and the Good Lord will give you what you need.