Is there something wrong with me?

[mina]

I do? In real life I am not model material at all. I am the kind of girl who is considered tough. I grew up playing sports with my two brothers. I have scars to prove the daring stuff I did in my life. I am an adventurous person who loves to know how things work like computers. I love fixing computers! I was a tom boy growing up, always want to help my dad fix cars or clean the yard. I hate doing chores. :o My mom tells me, "You are a girl, you should be doing this." I don't like stereotypes. My cousin always says, "If a man can make a mess he can clean it up." When I get married or if I ever do I want to have equal roles. One day he does laundry and I mow the lawn, the next time we switch.

So what??? you can still do all those things and what's more you look like a beautifumous model doing them.

 

[Woman_of_The_Word]

I do? In real life I am not model material at all. I am the kind of girl who is considered tough. I grew up playing sports with my two brothers. I have scars to prove the daring stuff I did in my life. I am an adventurous person who loves to know how things work like computers. I love fixing computers! I was a tom boy growing up, always want to help my dad fix cars or clean the yard. I hate doing chores. :o My mom tells me, "You are a girl, you should be doing this." I don't like stereotypes. My cousin always says, "If a man can make a mess he can clean it up." When I get married or if I ever do I want to have equal roles. One day he does laundry and I mow the lawn, the next time we switch.

If you really want to be equal with your hubby, you two do your own laundry, pay your own bills, spilt all the payments in half, was your own dishes, cook your own meals, etc.

 

[Sketcher]

Sounds more like roomates than a married couple.

 

[Woman_of_The_Word]

Sounds more like roomates than a married couple.

it was a joke.

 

[Fatolia]

I grew up playing sports with my two brothers. I have scars to prove the daring stuff I did in my life. I am an adventurous person who loves to know how things work like computers.

Sounds pretty attractive to me! I like tough and smart women. A good challenge.

 

[Love&Pain]

Sounds pretty attractive to me! I like tough and smart women. A good challenge.

Really you think so? My mom is always scolding me, she told me, "Hurry up and get a boyfriend. Wear makeup, straigthen your hair, and buy more clothes." What's wrong with being me? This is who I am, I like to look natural not like a clown with a lot of makeup or reveal too much of my body, with my natural curls, as for my clothes I wear girl clothes even though sometimes I like to throw on my kung-fu shirt or motorcycle jersey. I am not totally unfeminine because God created me to be a woman and I am sensitive. Hey do you like arm wrestling? jk.

 

[Fatolia]

Hey do you like arm wrestling? jk.

I used to. When my good friend got a compound fracture during a game (ie I heard a pop and his forearm bone punched through his skin), I stopped playing. I prefer other party tricks to cover the wall in testosterone with.

See, I could get all down on myself because I'm so weird and different and focused and intense and passionate that I freak people out or leave them hanging, but I'm not. I suppose I could get all sad about girls not liking me because I'm a 6 or 7 instead of a 9 or 10 (which all the girls seem to drool over despite claiming that personality is what counts).

I could fret all day about how I'm plagued with acne and how girls ignore me because I usually don't dress very sexy and how my hair poofs up like a fuzzy cotton ball no matter what I do...but what's the point? I'm satisfied with how God made me. I have enough food to eat and incredibly convenient shelter. I have an excellent computer system. I'm not paralyzed. I'm not blind. I don't have AIDS or sickle cell anemia. I don't have diabetes I. There's lots to be praise God for (this is ONLY the beginning.)

Here let me show you a pic of me. Should I rant about how ugly I am? I'm certainly not a looker, but I'm sure that smile of mine could melt a girl in the right circumstances. In the same way, you might be a charmer for a guy under the right circumstances. I'm not trying to be arrogant or self-indulgent here...just try to put things in perspective for yourself and be thankful for what you have.

 

[sweetlambofgod]

*grabs a piece of paper and writes something on it*

*holds it up for all to see*

10

what about me?

 

[sweetlambofgod]

Okay...here goes nothing...

God has blessed you with an exotic flair,
And a talent to take care of your hair.
Your defined cheeks and small lips,
Mask you in mystery that I cannot quite grip.

Your golden skin reminds me of what I once chased,
But monetary riches would dwarf in the presence of your face.
If your voice is as delicate as your head,
Then my jaw would hit the floor and eyelids spread.

A person with it all, takes much for granted
But one who lacks, appreciates all that's there
Though you may have lost hearing in one ear
I'd know the other one would listen all the more.

A man seeks a woman to complete him,
If God finds you someone, you're only a half of a whole
So don't let your face sink so grim
Because your true man won't leave you out in the cold.

If you have a heart that's as beautiful as your eyes,
Then don't worry, you'll be the envy of all the land.
Do not fear, friend, for Jesus is in your life.
Let him be the guider of your hand.


That's my take at it...anyone else?

me

 

[Fatolia]

You're wanting this laddie here to write you a poem too?

 

[stormgade4]

I used to. When my good friend got a compound fracture during a game (ie I heard a pop and his forearm bone punched through his skin), I stopped playing. I prefer other party tricks to cover the wall in testosterone with.

See, I could get all down on myself because I'm so weird and different and focused and intense and passionate that I freak people out or leave them hanging, but I'm not. I suppose I could get all sad about girls not liking me because I'm a 6 or 7 instead of a 9 or 10 (which all the girls seem to drool over despite claiming that personality is what counts).

I could fret all day about how I'm plagued with acne and how girls ignore me because I usually don't dress very sexy and how my hair poofs up like a fuzzy cotton ball no matter what I do...but what's the point? I'm satisfied with how God made me. I have enough food to eat and incredibly convenient shelter. I have an excellent computer system. I'm not paralyzed. I'm not blind. I don't have AIDS or sickle cell anemia. I don't have diabetes I. There's lots to be praise God for (this is ONLY the beginning.)

Here let me show you a pic of me. Should I rant about how ugly I am? I'm certainly not a looker, but I'm sure that smile of mine could melt a girl in the right circumstances. In the same way, you might be a charmer for a guy under the right circumstances. I'm not trying to be arrogant or self-indulgent here...just try to put things in perspective for yourself and be thankful for what you have.

You are a brave man.

 

[Love&Pain]

I used to. When my good friend got a compound fracture during a game (ie I heard a pop and his forearm bone punched through his skin), I stopped playing. I prefer other party tricks to cover the wall in testosterone with.

See, I could get all down on myself because I'm so weird and different and focused and intense and passionate that I freak people out or leave them hanging, but I'm not. I suppose I could get all sad about girls not liking me because I'm a 6 or 7 instead of a 9 or 10 (which all the girls seem to drool over despite claiming that personality is what counts).

I could fret all day about how I'm plagued with acne and how girls ignore me because I usually don't dress very sexy and how my hair poofs up like a fuzzy cotton ball no matter what I do...but what's the point? I'm satisfied with how God made me. I have enough food to eat and incredibly convenient shelter. I have an excellent computer system. I'm not paralyzed. I'm not blind. I don't have AIDS or sickle cell anemia. I don't have diabetes I. There's lots to be praise God for (this is ONLY the beginning.)

Here let me show you a pic of me. Should I rant about how ugly I am? I'm certainly not a looker, but I'm sure that smile of mine could melt a girl in the right circumstances. In the same way, you might be a charmer for a guy under the right circumstances. I'm not trying to be arrogant or self-indulgent here...just try to put things in perspective for yourself and be thankful for what you have.

Would it make a difference to you if I told you that you are my type of guy because it's true?

 

[sweetlambofgod]

You're wanting this laddie here to write you a poem too?

yes please!

 

[Fatolia]

Would it make a difference to you if I told you that you are my type of guy because it's true?

Thanks love4jesus I'm flattered!

Hey sweetlambofgod I could write you a poem. I gotta think about it. Could you post a more closeup pic of yourself so that I could look at your face? That picture in your profile is horrible (not that you look bad necessarily), but technically I can't see anything...

love4jesus, sweetlambofgod, and mina, you absolutely MUST visit this site: http://www.about-face.org/ It's right up your alley.

 

[Fatolia]

The perfect female is not human; she is a shell representing a female form. Her only attribute is attractiveness, every other characteristic would detract and has therefore been erased. Women are held to this standard and are bombarded with shaming messages that remind them that they will not succeed, be loved, secure or happy unless they conform to the shell identity, which is flawless appearance. The response evoked is guilt, fear and shame.

from about-face.org

 

[fungku]

what about me?

That was for his poem!
I don't rate people

 

[Pyrogenesis]

I do? In real life I am not model material at all. I am the kind of girl who is considered tough. I grew up playing sports with my two brothers. I have scars to prove the daring stuff I did in my life. I am an adventurous person who loves to know how things work like computers. I love fixing computers! I was a tom boy growing up, always want to help my dad fix cars or clean the yard. I hate doing chores. :o My mom tells me, "You are a girl, you should be doing this." I don't like stereotypes. My cousin always says, "If a man can make a mess he can clean it up." When I get married or if I ever do I want to have equal roles. One day he does laundry and I mow the lawn, the next time we switch.

Tough, sports, scars, computers, cars... Woah, you're perfect.

 

[stormgade4]

Wow love4jesus, seems like you have a fan club in the works.

 

[JPPT1974]

You are in need of a fan club president my friend!

 

[Love&Pain]

Thank you everyone for your love and support.