Is there something wrong with me?

[silentpoet]

lol. Hello. Saying hi isn't the problem to my shyness, it is talking to a guy that is the hard part. I turn all red and get nervous around a guy that I like. I don't like anyone right now but I remember when I did. I got embarrassed once because a guy shook my hand and my palms were sweaty because I was so nervous. What can I talk about with a guy that I might be interested in? Usually we are left in silence and in a akward situation.

I used to be even more shy than I am now. What advice I can offer is this. Just be honest, and also don't try to force the words. Just make small talk. Talk about whatever is in front of you or where you are at, or the weather, or any sports news you know, any world news, any hobbies you have. I could go on, there are lots of things you could say. I know you have great things within you, be confident in what God has given you.

 

[Pyrogenesis]

Why is it that the good ones are taken and the bad ones aren't? It always seems that way you know!

Sometimes the good ones are still on their faces before God praying for a Godly wife Get in quick after they arise from that prayer

 

[Heiroglyph]

Sometimes the good ones are still on their faces before God praying for a Godly wife Get in quick after they arise from that prayer

LOL oh yes that is me Ill be praying for a Godly wife everyday until she comes and taps me on the shoulder.

 

[JPPT1974]

Sometimes the good ones are still on their faces before God praying for a Godly wife Get in quick after they arise from that prayer

Yeah! I guess you are right my friend!

 

[Love&Pain]

Sometimes the good ones are still on their faces before God praying for a Godly wife Get in quick after they arise from that prayer

Amen brother!

 

[winglovesall]

Attraction comes later... personality and what she is comes first...

 

[fungku]

are you really 15?

haha

 

[winglovesall]

Yes - I'm turning 16 --

I certainly don't look like a 16 year old -- and my maturity is not like a 16 year old.

 

[Silver Speak]

To the OP: whether your picture is way off or your self-esteem is way off but you look beautiful in the picture!

Many pretty girls don't know that they are pretty.

Very true. I don't think I'm anything special but, a while back, I heard this guy rave about me to my friend :o "Who? Me??!" I just couldn't believe he said all those nice things about me. It's not like I thought I'm ugly but I just don't always pay so much attention to the issue. The less you think about it the more comfortable you are with yourself; the more you think about it, the more you obsess and make yourself miserable.

Just because you don't hear it every day doesn't mean you're not pretty. You might think you're quite plain but I'm rather positive that one day a guy will do his best to convince you're not. Just wait!

The truth is, though, that love is unconditional, attraction is not. However, attraction is just a way to catch one's attention, it's not what matters in the long run.

I can't say I'd go for a guy who doesn't look good to me, that's the honest truth. I've liked 'less attractive' guys in my past, though. It's really about personal taste I'm pretty sure God created a 'taste' that likes you too!

 

[sweetlambofgod]

Yes - I'm turning 16 --

I certainly don't look like a 16 year old -- and my maturity is not like a 16 year old.

aren't you too young to be posting in this section then?

 

[sweetlambofgod]

Many pretty girls don't know that they are pretty.

so true!

 

[Love&Pain]

To the OP: whether your picture is way off or your self-esteem is way off but you look beautiful in the picture!

I was obsessed with taking a picture in which I felt confident in. I took around twenty pictures before I chose the one in my profile because I thought I looked ugly. If I showed you a full body pic with my hair fro'd out then let's see if you would tell that I am beautiful. I wouldn't dare post a pic like that because I made someone laugh before when I showed them a pic of my fro. I also have a big nose that's why I take side shots.

 

[sweetlambofgod]

you're beautiful!

 

[JPPT1974]

Yes - I'm turning 16 --

I certainly don't look like a 16 year old -- and my maturity is not like a 16 year old.

But you do act like you are 16 to me! And more maturer!

 

[silentpoet]

Take it from a man who has looked at a lot of women, so I think I am an experienced judge, you are good looking.

 

[Love&Pain]

What makes everyone here think I am beautiful? :o

 

[Bloomin' Pyro]

What makes everyone here think I am beautiful? :o

Um, my guess is: they have eyes.

 

[Fatolia]

What makes everyone here think I am beautiful? :o

You really don't believe us? I guess I'll have to write you a poem then.

 

[fungku]

You really don't believe us? I guess I'll have to write you a poem then.

that'd be awesome! post it here

 

[sweetlambofgod]

You really don't believe us? I guess I'll have to write you a poem then.

I like poems too