Nope, I am right, people should not have sex outside of a marriage officiated by someone authorized to do so, providing all the other requirements are legally complied with. That being said, any marriage not between one man, and one woman is not valid either, since they would also be just as wrong. Scripture, tradition, history, and reason support this view.
I will not be persuaded to embrace any other view, and it appears you are just as committed to your view, so, all we are doing is whipping a dead horse. And we should stop here before our actions force someone to stumble.