I know you do not fully obey the letter of the ten commandments, for the bible states that law is the letter that kills, the ministry of death and condemnation. I also know you do not try and obey each and every literal command of Christ. You can call that judging you if you wish, I would call it understanding what the bible states, and experience over decades amongst various believers of many denominations
So you are God? Or like God Knowing all and seeing all?
No you are not. So you have no idea what someone else is doing unless you see them do it. Don't use yourself as the standard. Paul said that he followed after perfection. If he did not think it was possible he would not have followed after this high calling of Christ Jesus. If it is not of faith it is of sin friend. What you speak and believe is what you will get.
Phil 3:12 Not as though I had already attained, either were already perfect: but I follow after, if that I may apprehend that for which also I am apprehended of Christ Jesus.
Phil 3:13 Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before,
Phil 3:14 I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.
Phil 3:15 Let us therefore, as many as be perfect, be thus minded: and if in any thing ye be otherwise minded, God shall reveal even this unto you.
Phil 3:16 Nevertheless, whereto we have already attained, let us walk by the same rule, let us mind the same thing.