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I go online with these issues because I cannot tell speak with anyone I know about this, for answers and I hopefully to have prayer.
Other Christians may have experienced a similar situation and give me the Godly biblical way to view it and deal with it- not just the easy way out.
Only someone who has orhad similar problems can understand my life. I have received understanding and different ways of viewing what my husband tells me or the actions he exhibits instead of being all alone with only what he says as reference. I am all alone, no one knows except for Jesus and these forums.
I appreciate your thoughts on this. And you are right. Others opinions of your husband could be soured and that is very hard to overcome if you can work things out with him. You don't need to betray him to others unless you feel Jesus is leading you to go to your pastor or a counselor to help you guys work through this together.
I recommended trying "love dare" to see if you could affect him if you changed what you were doing over a month or longer. If your heart doesn't change and his heart doesn't change when you give back much more than he gives to you (through the "love dare" concept) then you have eliminated anything I know to help short of Christian counseling to help you both with the deep scars that each thinks the other inflicted on them. I would recommend Christian counseling outside your church, so that you can share everything and be comfortable that it won't be used against you guys in the future. Sadly, gossip channels are alive and well in many churches, which contain both the wheat and the tares.
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