OK, now that we know you're a Baptist....

For the above to be true God must then ELECT people for the opposite??
Do you think it's "possible" that God could "elect" someone knowing that they will "choose" Him at some point in their life - based on creation being a witness to the fact that there is a God?
.......plus the fact that your totally taking Romans 9 out of context. Romans 9 is about Israel's PAST and WHY God choose them and HOW he built their nation... Leaving Romans 9 in context, "Sovereign grace" would be how He called the Apostle Paul AND "hardening" would then be what happened to the nation (because He FOREKNEW they would reject Him anyway) - It's all part of the plan; "All Israel will be saved".
God choose to build a nation by calling out one man to "bless the entire world". However, God could have
called out every single person on the planet and said "leave your land", but He didn't... I suppose He choose to call out one man so that He can harden the others?
2Pe 3:9 The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.
G3114
makrothumeō
mak-roth-oo-meh'-o
From the same as G3116; to be long spirited, that is, (objectively) forbearing or (subjectively) patient: - bear (suffer) long, be longsuffering, have (long) patience, be patient, patiently endure.
...........God wishes everyone to
come to repentance, which is why He is so patient.
The only proof of any "elect" i can see are those who God foreknew would actually repent....