To be honest, I have difficulty believing this guy actually knows women and is married.
That wasn't advice for general Christian women who are single. It was more a smarmy clapback to previous girlfriends or something. It was a video for Christian men to feel better about their failed relationships, "it wasn't your fault Bro!"
His tone was way off to be considered "helpful".
I'm not saying all of his points were wrong, but I agree with Rachel that he presented them in the most offensive way he could, turning off the audience he claims he hopes to reach.
Additionally, I think he was gilding the lily a bit, I doubt the pastor is really suggesting that most CHRISTIAN women are single because they are entitled, spoiled children with unrealistic desires because that is pretty much what they said.
He gave me all the bad vibes, especially when he talked about men trying to talk women into relationships. There is a subset of Christian man who believes that if he is a good Christian, he deserves the woman of his choosing and if she is a good Christian - she will accept him. Women are supposed to want good Christian men & anything else is superficial. Men are the only ones who are entitled to want more than the minimum. I remember those guys from when I did attend church, they were creepy.