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  1. Lybrah

    Are some Christians meant to be single?

    Are there people that God did not make a significant other for? What if the person doesn't desire a boyfriend/girlfriend? Sometimes I wonder if the guy God had for me was aborted in the womb. Does God want some people to remain single?
  2. V

    Dating christian guys

    Hi everyone ! So I have recently entered back the christian dating world, I use to date non-christians but since that became a problem in a serious relationship I am trying to look into christian singles. But I do find christian guys are a bit less confortable with opinionated women... Or is it...
  3. Take Heart

    Am I Attractive? (photo Included)

    In spoilers. Don't get me wrong..I'm already confident in who I am. But I'm not saying that in relation to outward beauty. There's no specific criteria for beauty-physical or not. I just feel like..February is the most gloomiest time of all for most people because of the upcoming V-Day...
  4. GracefulGalPal

    Being single is hard...

    I've been single for years... its not fun. I wish I could find a suitable boyfriend or husband. I want to continue my mothers bloodline and give her grandkids! Going to church with a partner sounds so nice... Maybe I should start looking myself instead of of waiting for someone to come to me?
  5. N

    Books For Singles

    Here's some good books to read during the singleness season: 1. They Were Single Too. - David M. Hoffeditz 2. I'm Happy for You. - Kay Wills Wyma 3. Pure Desire. - Ted Roberts 4. Crash the Chatterbox. - Steven Furtick 5. When God Doesn't Fix It. - Laura Story 6. Single, Married...
  6. NiqueNique

    Single and successful

    So I'm a 23 yo male. i feel I have everything except a family of my own to share my success with. Everything except girls and dating in my life has come not easily, but with less intimidation. I am not afraid of girls or anything, but just not willing to be vulnerable with people. I guess I just...
  7. S

    Does God dislike spinsters / bachelors ?

    I met with an idea that the status "a spinster" or "a bachelor" does not exist, i mean like in Gods eyes. That one can be only married or the consecrated person. People who standed for this opinion were spiritual autorities in my parish, they studied theology and nobody would doubt their...
  8. pilot89P13R

    Need some help understanding breakup :P

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  9. NotUrAvgGuy

    Left Out?

    As a single divorced father of 3 and someone who has no siblings or other relatives nearby and only recently some contact with my kids after 6 years of no contact I share the following. My church rightly places a lot of emphasis on the family. We have the usual children's ministries, youth...
  10. G

    Celibacy and children - what do?

    Hi there, I am a 20 (soon to be 21) year old woman, and feel like God is calling to celibacy. At first, I was ok with the idea (oddly enough), and still to an extent am ok with it now. However, my main worry or thing I struggle with is the idea of having (or not having) children. Part of me...
  11. R

    A reflection on why I find it hard to date fellow Christians

    A recent Whatsapp conversation with a Christian acquaintance I met online has just ticked me off. So much that I decided to myself that I am going to write this openly to see whether some people do think the same. THIS if you can't see the picture, it's basically a conversation that goes...
  12. S

    I feel lost..

    I feel so lost right now. I used to be so on fire for Christ and it feels like I have lost Him. I need some advice, it is much appreciated. About 5 years ago I used to be engaged to be married. I ended up calling off the wedding and it was very difficult. We continue to try to date off and...
  13. A

    A Beginning

    Hello, everyone. My name is Ashley Carly, and this is the first time I've participated in an online forum of any kind. Since my relationship with God is such an integral part of my life, I thought it would be best to start with a Christian forum. I've been a Christian for about 17 years now...
  14. Lybrah

    Is God fed up with Me?

    I keep praying to God to send me a husband. The problem is, he sends me someone I just can't get interested in. Is it racist to say I don't want to date a particular race? I just don't feel attraction to this race (I'm not going to say what race it is). That might make me a racist, and I am...
  15. Y

    Asking out a complete Stranger

    Hello, This is my first post here. I am a christian man, and I intend to marry a godly christian woman. That being said the church I currently attend has no available girls. At my local supermarket there is this girlnI have talked to a little, I would like to ask her for her number but I don't...
  16. N

    How true is Proverbs 19:22?

    In Proverbs 1922 it says that what makes a man attractive is his kindness (or loyalty). There's this girl in my church that I have come to really like a lot. I am extremely kind and loving to her, not just because I like her but because I legit care about her. I encourage her in a Godly manner...
  17. Lybrah

    Single, Depressed, and in Despair

    I am over forty and have never been married. This never really bothered me that much, but recently, I am starting to feel really sad and suffer anxiety about it. I feel like God 1. either has no one to pair me up with, or 2. He has sent them but I rejected them for stupid reasons, like not...
  18. Lybrah

    Single forever?

    I am in my forties and never been married, or in a long term relationship. Everyone I've wanted never wanted me, and vice versa. The hardest thing is that when I go on dates, I don't fall in love by the third date. Men are expecting to fool around at least, but I don't want that yet. I feel...
  19. Kitteh

    38 years old..i think jesus dump me

    Hey guys this is my first threads, I was crawling all over the internet searching for any proof of reality that Jesus, Mother Mary or his Father (God) if did perform any miracle too those obedient single christian to find their soul mate. Unfortunately none (without solid proof). So i guess...
  20. F

    Need Advice: Am I to walk alone or be married?

    *Please, any wisdom would be helpful. If you have a personal experience that relates, I'd love to hear it. It may help.* The question: Is what I am experiencing something that will pass so I can continue my life as a single or should I look at marriage? What I am experiencing: It is like love...