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  1. Tardis911

    Running Away?

    I am just in need of some non-judgmental emotional advice and support right now. This morning my boyfriend got out of bed without saying a word and drove away. We had not even spoken to each other so I have no clue what is wrong. He has been gone for 8 hours. His phone is dead. We live together...
  2. Monna

    What's In A Name? No. 2 Are You A "who" Or A "what?"

    Mohembo was no genius in grammer, or even English. But he remembers clearly a lesson in which he was taught: when refering to people, use "who;" when refering to animals or things (whether animate or inanimate) use "what." Correct or not, this made such an impression on him that it still guides...
  3. ChristnMe

    Letter To The Faithful - Engage !

    Engage ! Engage! And be not asleep for the Lord is soon to come. He comes as the Lion of Judah. So we need to stop being lambs and become as lions for Christ revealing. For does not the Earth groan for the Sons and Daughters of the Kingdom to be known? For Christ will call of His kind, not of a...
  4. J

    Uncontrollable emotions

    So I've been with this girl for over a year and we set up from the beginning that we were willing to get married. We worked out that since she was a different denomination (orthodox) she would convert. I felt like I had a partner for life and I could tell her anything. She told me early on that...
  5. Random Musings

    Random Musings

    If you have a handicap placard because you tote your disabled mother around every so often and you regularly use the placard for yourself…there's as much shame on you as the person who has no placard. There are times I say nothing when I’m listening to you. There’s a reason for that. I...
  6. N

    What was it like having sex for the first time as a married couple (for those that waited)?

    If you had waited until you got married to have sex with your partner, what was it like the first time? was it what you expected? was it awkward? was it awesome?
  7. Joyfuliness

    Need prayer for all sorts of things

    I have been getting all sorts of anxieties at my job today because I have been learning new things, but they are a bit overwhelming ( especially the phone calls). Please pray for me for strength and courage and anything else that God will provide. I really feel useless at work because of still...
  8. S

    I feel lost..

    I feel so lost right now. I used to be so on fire for Christ and it feels like I have lost Him. I need some advice, it is much appreciated. About 5 years ago I used to be engaged to be married. I ended up calling off the wedding and it was very difficult. We continue to try to date off and...
  9. E

    Please help - Relationship in crisis

    Hi, new member and firs time poster... A little background: I am 25 years old. I am a Christian female who isn't heavily involved in church... but do go on the occasion and try my best to do what is right in terms of my faith. It has officially been one year since I got out of an emotionally...
  10. D

    My girlfriend left me, I want to know how to pray about it. (Please read to understand)

    Good evening everyone. I wanted to post this in the married couples forum but it wont let me. Here's the thing: my girlfriend just broke up with me after 7 years of relationship. We both are christians but we've been in a long distance relationship for 3 years now because I had to leave for...
  11. F

    Relationship Advice- Praying too much?

    Two weeks ago my boyfriend of 5 months said he wasn't sure his feelings for me are as strong as they should be at this point. When asked if he wants to stop seeing me or if he needs a break, he tells me doesn't know yet but he is praying about it. Shocked by this whole thing, I told him to take...
  12. J

    Please pray for me, anyone... I'm out of life... Please... Anyone please... Please...

    Hi, I'm 17 right now. Let me prefix this by saying, it may be long, but I need real help here... Something intense is happening in my life... It's mad... Thank you. I been with a girl for about a year. Until one day, my thoughts are uncontrollable, and I seriously think I'm better off without...
  13. T

    God's Plan for me ...

    I am new to this site and wasn't sure where to post my question. Although I have always believed in God I am new to Christianity. Long story short I am confused if what I think is God's plan for me and my BF? or if I'm just grasping at straws. This man has literally been in love with me since...
  14. A

    Please pray for my loved ones faith..

    I have recently found out that one of my loved ones has come to the conclusion that there is no God. It hurt me so much to hear this.. I have full faith in God but I need the weight of other brothers and sisters prayer. Her name is Esmi. I have never prayed harder about something and I need your...
  15. Handy Andy

    My worst enemy is boredom/advice

    So, I have a job and some close friends, but on my days off I can only find so many things to do before I get very bored, which is when I start to think about and sometimes engage in sexual sin. I'm wondering how do most Christians stave off boredom which causes us to sin? I'm sure if I had...
  16. C

    Prayer and advice - girlfriend with non-Christian

    My girlfriend went abroad to learn a language. She was a Christian but she has fallen for a local non-believer. She has always believed this is wrong, she acknowledges she is confused, but she is too caught up in the excitement. I would like prayer about the situation please and any constructive...
  17. Lybrah

    Single forever?

    I am in my forties and never been married, or in a long term relationship. Everyone I've wanted never wanted me, and vice versa. The hardest thing is that when I go on dates, I don't fall in love by the third date. Men are expecting to fool around at least, but I don't want that yet. I feel...
  18. S

    21, mom don't accept boyfriend, should I move out?

    I am 21. I never had a boyfriend before. My parents have always overprotected me by not letting me have any contact with the opposite sex. I spent so long without guys contact that I spent 4 years in depression thinking that I was lesbian because I had feelings for some girls in high school and...
  19. Rovelic Smith

    Not looking for short term

    “I have been in the West Lafayette area for a few years now and always looking to meet new people. I am a very hard worker and love my job. I work a lot, but I know how to balance well. I enjoy meeting new people and i love adventures, outdoors, watching movies, dancing, and traveling. I made...
  20. Ahilla

    Should I give in to sex?

    My boyfriend and I are both Christians, but we had sex before marriage. After a long time of wantingto stop but not wanting to lose him, I finally built up the courage to tell him we need to stop, and I told him a., the reasons. He said he understands my reasons and he agrees, but he keeps doing...