• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

relationship

  1. S

    Depression

    deleted post
  2. Q

    Relationship prayer

    I am having a relationship problem. I've been very upset lately about it and becoming depressed. Please pray for the situation to be better and have God's will include the relationship work out. Whatever His will is. Also please pray so i can find happiness again. Thank you so much. Praise the Lord
  3. N

    [moved] Need advice and prayer

    Hey, so I'm new here. I posted in this thread because I didn't know where else to. If you're reading this, thank you very much. I appreciate that you're willing to hear what I have to say. I've talked about this with many other people, but decided to present this to a new crowd. So, here's...
  4. heathorheather

    Relationship Advice..I don't know what to do

    Hi I'm David, Earlier this week my girlfriend of 2+ years asked to talk to me and called it quits. I don't know how to feel right now cause our relationship was/is great. Our compatibility up there on top of the chart, we have fun, love each other and individually our relationship with God is on...
  5. dusts

    Help with dysfunctional mother?

    Hello, My mother has never seemed fond of me. She tells me I am worthless, has tried to push me out of moving cars, lies to me, tells others I am a bad person, blames every problem in our household & life on me, and never seems content with what I do. Today our pet died and she told me that it...
  6. LauraAviel

    Severe co-dependence help

    I am just starting to realize that I am severely co-dependent and have been for a long time. I believe that this is what is at the roots of many of my problems. I was wondering if there is anybody here who has any experience with co-dependence or overcoming co-dependence? I would appreciate any...
  7. J

    Need advice to get over the fact that my girlfriend is not virgin

    Hi, sorry for my bad english in advance. I’m with my girlfriend since 6 month, we know each other since we are in middle school. After that she go in another school and in an other high school in the same town. We are now both 20 years old, we started to speak together after all these years...
  8. Joyfuliness

    Please pray, about a guy!

    Please pray for my situation with a guy (long distance), I don't know him so well, not sure if he is a Christian(equally yoked), but I am comfortable talking to him in some ways and feel quite connected, there was a time we didn't speak for about a month(I dated him for a short period of time...
  9. M

    I Don't Know Why I'm in this Relationship..

    I'm 17 years old and I've been this one guy for a year and a half. We have a great connection and we're really close. We're both Christians and are waiting until marriage.. But I don't want to get married anytime soon. And I don't know if I want to be with him, I feel like I can't escape. I've...
  10. Christsfreeservant

    Keep Singing

    Friday, October 21, 2016, 2:24 a.m. – The Lord Jesus put in mind the song “He Keeps Me Singing.” Speak, Lord, your words to my heart. I read Psalm 63:1-8 (ESV). I Seek You (vv. 1-2) O God, you are my God; earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you; my flesh faints for you, as in a...
  11. SunsetRose

    I've always dreaded my wedding day.

    Most girls dream of walking down the aisle one day, with their family and loved ones around them but I sadly dread this day. To sum it up, my family is toxic. They leach off others, they hurt and abuse and they have never provided a loving environment in the 24 years of my life. Because of...
  12. Lost Girl

    The Serious Side of Adolescence

    Warning: This is a LONG story, so please be prepared. Every since I was a small girl I've had things happen to me that could only be described as miracles. I was blessed with a Godly intuition that always seemed to keep me out of trouble at just the right time. This intuition could even go to...
  13. J

    How Do I Get to "Know" God, not just ABOUT Him?

    I feel like I’ve finally realized something. Something I should have realized a long time ago. I have heard my entire life that people have relationships with God. It never clicked with me that what I was missing was indeed, a relationship with God. I have never really doubted the existence of...
  14. L

    Sex before marriage

    I've been troubled by this for a few weeks now. I lost my virginity a few weeks ago and I've been so panic. He is also a Christian (he is 25, I'm 23). When I was with him, I though he was the one that God sent to me and we are going to get married. He had many sexual experiences before. I was...
  15. Christsfreeservant

    My Chosen Portion

    Monday, September 26, 2016, 7:38 a.m. – The Lord Jesus put in mind the song “A Believer’s Prayer.” Speak, Lord, your words to my heart. I read Psalm 16 (ESV). Preserve Me (vv. 1-2) Preserve me, O God, for in you I take refuge. I say to the Lord, “You are my Lord; I have no good apart from...
  16. E

    In need of prayers from fellow Christians.

    So after being in a relationship for 3 years, that relationship was not healthy, it wasn't good, I only stayed because of lust. During the breakup process, I prayed & asked God to put someone into my life & that's exactly what he did next day after asking God, I met someone & she was absolutely...
  17. W

    need to get it out..

    So my husband and I have been married for almost two years ago, we've had two babies in a very short amount of time almost 2 and a newborn. i was extremely pregnant with the first when we got married, and had only lived together for a few months when i got pregnant. there is a very brief...
  18. K

    Spiritual advice on bullying amd confrontation

    Hi everyone, I am new to these forums and even new to the Christian faith. I have just started to explore a relationship with Jesus and I am struggling with how to appropriately deal with a situation that has been ongoing with my boyfriend of 5 years ex girlfriend. In the beginning of our...
  19. T

    Is He the "one"?

    So I am currently 18 and I have been dating my boyfriend for about eight months now. I cannot describe the love I have for him. He is my absolute best friend and I am so crazy in love with him. He is not my first love, though. Nor am I his. But both of us agree that neither of us have loved...
  20. W

    More Than One Way To Worship?

    Hi, I have a question concerning my Christianity and my new girlfriend. She seems to think that, since my relationship with God is different from her's, I am either not strong in my faith or that I am not being a good Christian. I will elaborate on why my girlfriend thinks this but, firstly...