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porn addiction

  1. A

    My boyfriend watched porn and hide it from me

    My boyfriend (male 29) and I (female 32) met about a year ago and we’ve been in this great relationship, he brought me closer to God and made me in general a better woman. So I have a lot to thank him for but that’s also why I hold him in high standards. When we first started dating he...
  2. Lostcontroll

    Sexual intrusive thoughts about others while in a relationship

    Hey, I've been heavily addicted to porn for 7-8 years, especially BDSM. In January, I told my girlfriend everything (including that I had been chatting with other men as their slave and sent them some stuff about myself). We've been fighting together, and I've been porn-free since then. Until...
  3. Christsfreeservant

    The Lord Hears our Weeping

    I’m sharing this here with you from my time of personal devotions with my Lord Jesus Christ, for your encouragement. Sue Love James 5:1-6 ESV “Come now, you rich, weep and howl for the miseries that are coming upon you. Your riches have rotted and your garments are moth-eaten. Your gold and...
  4. Christsfreeservant

    Living by One's Feelings

    1 John 4:11-12 ESV “Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.” Not Love, but Hate There are many people in this world who claim to love others, but whose “love” is really...
  5. CodyR4

    new plan to stop porn addiction.

    i have been addicted to porn for the better part of six years. i made it 90 days porn free after my ex fiance and i split it. i met a new girl and i opened up to her about my addiction and a week later she used that as an excuse to dump me. ive made it a few days porn free here and there for a...
  6. M

    PORN ADDICTION

    porno addiction
  7. Christsfreeservant

    Freedom from Addiction

    Hebrews 12:1-2 ESV “Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy...
  8. Christsfreeservant

    Are We Truly Grieving?

    1 Corinthians 5:1-2 ESV “It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that is not tolerated even among pagans, for a man has his father's wife. And you are arrogant! Ought you not rather to mourn? Let him who has done this be removed from among you.” Let’s...
  9. ll_retro.duck_ll

    Missing Something for Sexual Freedom?

    Hello, been struggling with an addiction to porn ever since middle-school and even after I became a Christian (20+ yrs). I grew in knowledge of the Word of God and Christian service over the years. What became an everyday act became limited to about 1-2 times every week 2 weeks. The longest I...
  10. Christsfreeservant

    A Great Fall!

    When I was a child, a long, long time ago, here in the United States of America, someone read to me, or I read what were called “Nursery Rhymes.” Honestly, I don’t know why these stories (rhymes) were read to young children, for most all of them were about something bad that happened to...
  11. M

    Question about husbands internet searches

    So I’ve posted before on my husbands porn use and my concerns. I still haven’t decided how to handle it because I’m afraid if things blow up and we separate I don’t want the possibility of losing my 3 kids even if it was split custody. But recently I found he’s been searching local escort sites...
  12. PaxSincera

    Addiction to Pornography

    Sorry in advance for such a long post... I guess this is more of a rant than anything else, but if you have any advice to give or if you could just pray for me, I would greatly appreciate it. Background (feel free to skip): I'm currently 19 years old, I grew up in a Christian family, and I...
  13. Beloved_Dust_Heap

    I need help.(porn addiction.)

    I'm not a normal case. My parents didn't really know what they were doing when I was a kid and they let me watch nearly whatever I wanted. Lots of R movies with sex scenes from like 6 on up that fascinated me about sex from a young age. I discovered masturbation as a very young kid even before...
  14. D

    Struggling with porn and homosexuality At 16

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  15. M

    Husbands porn addiction

    My husband has struggled with porn since before marriage and continues in the cycle of me finding out, askinghim, him lying until he realizes I’ve seen, then confessing and apologizing saying he won’t do it again. I always forgive and offer to support him if he’ll just be honest about it. This...
  16. J

    Please help and prayer. Good husband, except for porn addiction

    Hello, I really need support, advice and mostly, prayer. I've been with my husband since we were teens and had been good friends for years before. We have a 7 yo son together. I've always been a Catholic, he was an atheist. The first years of living together together were difficult. We...
  17. J

    Please help and prayer. Good husband, except for porn addiction

    Hello, I really need support, advice and mostly, prayer. I've been with my husband since we were teens and had been good friends for years before. We have a 7 yo son together. I've always been a Catholic, he was an atheist. The first years of living together together were difficult. We even...
  18. G

    Hello I am new here and a Christian

    Notice: I was never in the porn industry I just have a addiction to watching and masturbaing to porn videos !! so I have to admit that I had a porn addiction for almost a year and I would quit for a day but end up going back on porn and masturbating and I noticed it was taking a toll on my life...
  19. G

    Hi I am new here and I am a Christian but I need some help

    so I have to admit that I had a porn addiction for almost a year and I would quit for a day but end up going back on porn and masturbating and I noticed it was taking a toll on my life so one day I mad a holy oath to stop watching porn and masturbating to it but I would always end up breaking it...
  20. Guy Incognito

    Practical Ways To Fight Porn(/porn Addiction)

    So the reason I wanted to share this was mostly, I want it to be helpful. There's been a very interesting topic about porn in the marrieds forum, it's been an issue I've struggled with most of my life, and something a lot of Christians face. My hope is these steps have both practical and...