Sorry in advance for such a long post... I guess this is more of a rant than anything else, but if you have any advice to give or if you could just pray for me, I would greatly appreciate it.
Background (feel free to skip):
I'm currently 19 years old, I grew up in a Christian family, and I guess I asked the Lord to forgive me for my sins and to be my Savior when I was around 6 or 7, although I never read the Bible or prayed or enjoyed going to church; I think I asked for forgiveness more out of fear than actual repentance. I started looking at inappropriate contentography when I was... how long ago was it? I must have been no older than 8. When I was about 15 I started to become aware of my problem with inappropriate contentography, and tried quitting a few times only to fall within a few days. I continued in sin for the next couple years, but when I was 17 I really started to feel awful about it, and I remember falling on my face, weeping, and asking the Lord to forgive me and to cleanse me, and that I didn't want to live the way I was anymore. I began praying and reading the Bible everyday, and really enjoyed doing so. I felt like I could hear the Lord speaking to me through His Word, and when I prayed, I could tell he was listening. I was free from inappropriate contentography for the next two months, and decided to begin receiving communion at my church within that time period. Then, all of the sudden, I fell back into inappropriate contentography. I don't know what circumstances brought me to fall so suddenly, but ever since, I haven't been able to be free for more than a week at a time at best (although usually I can't resist temptation for more than two days or so).
Current Situation:
I feel really lost right now. I don't understand why I consistently choose pleasure over Him. Recently I get more and more doubts as towards my salvation. I hear so many people saying things like "No matter how many times we fall, he forgives us", and "Satan is the one who condemns us, but the Lord is always loving and forgiving", and I somewhat agree with that, but I see so many times throughout the Bible where the Word is clear about those who live in sin (examples at the bottom of this post).
I feel like I've tried really hard to stop... and while I know it's not my own effort that will deliver me, it is only by His grace, I don't understand why I continue to sin. If it is my responsibility to stop, then there is no hope for me, because evidently I am not able. If it is by His grace that I should be delivered, then is there nothing to do but to continue to sin until He saves me? I read and pray everyday still, and I try to just focus on Him and enjoy Him, but I always fall to temptation within a couple of days. Mentally speaking, I feel so weak; just the slightest temptation is all it takes to make me fall. I feel so numb, it's like sinning doesn't make me feel as awful as it used to; I seem to be starting to just accept it and I hate that. I've confessed to a few people that I'm close to, and who have gone through the same thing as me and have overcome. They said they pray for me, and they gave me advice, but there is no success (I moved to go to college now, and I've only ever talked to them about it in person, so we've kind of gotten out of touch about it even though we still chat online). I pray through Psalm 51 every morning and night now, and ask the Lord to help me, but I remain in my sin.
I honestly just miss the days when the Lord felt so close, and it was like we could just enjoy each others' presence throughout the day. Now I feel so far from him, and I don't know how to return to the days when things were going so well.
Examples:
"Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God."
(1 Corinthians 6:9)
"For if after they have escaped the pollutions of the world through the knowledge of the Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, they are again entangled therein, and overcome, the latter end is worse with them than the beginning. For it had been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness, than, after they have known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered unto them. But it is happened unto them according to the true proverb, The dog is turned to his own vomit again; and the sow that was washed to her wallowing in the mire." (2 Peter 2:20-22)
Background (feel free to skip):
I'm currently 19 years old, I grew up in a Christian family, and I guess I asked the Lord to forgive me for my sins and to be my Savior when I was around 6 or 7, although I never read the Bible or prayed or enjoyed going to church; I think I asked for forgiveness more out of fear than actual repentance. I started looking at inappropriate contentography when I was... how long ago was it? I must have been no older than 8. When I was about 15 I started to become aware of my problem with inappropriate contentography, and tried quitting a few times only to fall within a few days. I continued in sin for the next couple years, but when I was 17 I really started to feel awful about it, and I remember falling on my face, weeping, and asking the Lord to forgive me and to cleanse me, and that I didn't want to live the way I was anymore. I began praying and reading the Bible everyday, and really enjoyed doing so. I felt like I could hear the Lord speaking to me through His Word, and when I prayed, I could tell he was listening. I was free from inappropriate contentography for the next two months, and decided to begin receiving communion at my church within that time period. Then, all of the sudden, I fell back into inappropriate contentography. I don't know what circumstances brought me to fall so suddenly, but ever since, I haven't been able to be free for more than a week at a time at best (although usually I can't resist temptation for more than two days or so).
Current Situation:
I feel really lost right now. I don't understand why I consistently choose pleasure over Him. Recently I get more and more doubts as towards my salvation. I hear so many people saying things like "No matter how many times we fall, he forgives us", and "Satan is the one who condemns us, but the Lord is always loving and forgiving", and I somewhat agree with that, but I see so many times throughout the Bible where the Word is clear about those who live in sin (examples at the bottom of this post).
I feel like I've tried really hard to stop... and while I know it's not my own effort that will deliver me, it is only by His grace, I don't understand why I continue to sin. If it is my responsibility to stop, then there is no hope for me, because evidently I am not able. If it is by His grace that I should be delivered, then is there nothing to do but to continue to sin until He saves me? I read and pray everyday still, and I try to just focus on Him and enjoy Him, but I always fall to temptation within a couple of days. Mentally speaking, I feel so weak; just the slightest temptation is all it takes to make me fall. I feel so numb, it's like sinning doesn't make me feel as awful as it used to; I seem to be starting to just accept it and I hate that. I've confessed to a few people that I'm close to, and who have gone through the same thing as me and have overcome. They said they pray for me, and they gave me advice, but there is no success (I moved to go to college now, and I've only ever talked to them about it in person, so we've kind of gotten out of touch about it even though we still chat online). I pray through Psalm 51 every morning and night now, and ask the Lord to help me, but I remain in my sin.
I honestly just miss the days when the Lord felt so close, and it was like we could just enjoy each others' presence throughout the day. Now I feel so far from him, and I don't know how to return to the days when things were going so well.
Examples:
"Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God."
(1 Corinthians 6:9)
"For if after they have escaped the pollutions of the world through the knowledge of the Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, they are again entangled therein, and overcome, the latter end is worse with them than the beginning. For it had been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness, than, after they have known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered unto them. But it is happened unto them according to the true proverb, The dog is turned to his own vomit again; and the sow that was washed to her wallowing in the mire." (2 Peter 2:20-22)