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marriage advice

  1. T

    Need your help/advice

    I have been married for 4.5 years. She is 22, and I am 23. I am a cop, she is a sales rep and student. The last ten months of marriage has been extremely rough. I worked third shifts, this was a problem for my wife. The sex had lacked greatly, both in quality and quantity. There were many nights...
  2. L

    need help in my marriage

    Hello, I have been married to my husband for 3 1/2 years and we have an almost 3 year old son. I was 19 years old when I started dating him. The way we met I knew would potentially cause us problems in the future because my husband is my ex-brother in laws cousin. Sounds confusing I know,at the...
  3. HMS

    Money and Marriage

    This is my first post. I am in need and stumbled on this website in search of answers and guidance. My question is, how is money supposed to work in a Christian marriage? I have my own opinion, but what do I do when my spouse has an opposing opinion? A little background. My husband and I have...
  4. S

    Wife and I are starting over, help?

    Hi everyone, I'm new here! This is my first post. To make a long story somewhat short, my wife (24) and I (26) are approaching our 3 year anniversary. Everything was running smooth, at least it appeared that way until the first week of sept when everything collapsed. My wife told me about an...
  5. G

    Living with a difficult spouse, need advice

    Whenever my husband and I disagree on something, if he doesn't get his way, he completely shuts off. Sometimes for days at a time. He will only speak to me when absolutely necessary and will not smile or show any sign of love. We've been together for about 4 years so I have tried every different...
  6. Strength from Within

    Prayer Request Child caught in bad Marriage... Can't get my husband work on our problems.

    Excuse the length of my post please but I am just so ready to give up... I just don't know what to do:( Sitting here in my own home today I feel nothing more than empty and ashamed. Ashamed that I am still here and allowing myself to go through this. Nobody deserves this maybe I think somewhere...
  7. C

    I hate my 53 year old Life

    What do You do when you're stuck? My issues came to a head after a Mens breakfast at church, which I walked out of... I have never been good at defending myself or sticking to my guns... demanding what I want and need. Now, here comes God/The Church. I'm told to lay down my needs and desires...
  8. Women Seeking Truth

    Me, My Ex & His Wife

    My ex boyfriend from 10 years ago got in contact with me through social media early last year. It was pretty unexpected for me because it came out of nowhere at the most unexpected time of my life. I was at a very low point for quite sometime after my stepfather committed suicide on my 25th...
  9. S

    Marriage

    Hi all. Am glad to introduce myself. My name is Shilpa and am from India. I here to discuss about my marriage life. hoping to get some help here. thank you
  10. D

    Friends Are Going Through Divorce

    Hello, I've got two friends that are going through a divorce. The wife is the one calling the divorce because her husband has "abused" her. (I put in quotes because I'm not sure if this is actually considered abuse or not). She says that he purposely emotionally and verbally abuses her, and...
  11. O

    Porn in a Christian marriage

    Hi guys, I've been having problems. Some between my husband and some between my mind and soul. My husband and I have been together for almost 2 years. We love each other, and we want to live the most Christian life possible. My husband watched porn for about 5 years before me and even in our...
  12. M

    How does one move on??

    A buddy of mine is very distraught. He is wanting to marry this woman he has been dating for a while. But he tells me," I can't get married and have kids because of what I've done." I asked him why and he said that him and his brother did sexual things when they were children. His therapist says...
  13. JBell-Fitz

    Help and advice on marriage....

    Hi everyone! So I've been praying and getting back in church and reading my bible to help me get on the right path again, but my husband has lost hope that I am going to change or that I'm going to stay on this path. I have a really bad anger problem, I've had it all my life and after we have...
  14. J

    I don't know where to begin

    To start off let me give you my background. I was raised in a conservative christian home. And I consider myself a Christian believer by faith. I am 22 years old and I live with my parents. In February of 2015 I met this amazing guy. He was everything I've always wanted but never knew I truly...
  15. S

    Newlywed Regret

    I am only a month into married life and I am filled with regret. We got married on our 2 year anniversary after a year long engagement. Our relationship was filled with arguments prior to marriage but when I confided in those I trust they told me it was just me who thought it was wrong. I suffer...
  16. S

    Husband has been accused of rape.

    Hi everyone, I am new to this site so please forgive me if I am posting in the wrong area. As the title says, my husband has recently been accused of rape...30 years after it supposedly happened. The woman messaged me on Facebook to say my husband raped her with his friends, when they were...
  17. Valpal1123

    being married young...

    I think we need to have more support groups for young christian wives and christian husbands... Were people can really offer advice without judgement....
  18. D

    Need help and opinions.

    We just got Married few weeks ago and things have been rough for us. My wife complains of pain during sex and she asked me if we could stop having sex. She suggests that we be a married couple that NEVER have sex and I gave her an honest answer that I cannot do that. I cannot wait till I get...
  19. A

    A "weird" reason to come to God's feet

    Hey, I'm sorry if I added a new subject nobody was interested on but the truth is a came here looking for help so now I'm going to proceed to give you me whole story; I'm 22 years old, I was burned in the church, my parents are leaders at the church but they are so hard to talk to and tend to...
  20. K

    Is my wife lazy or depressed or am I just a terrible husband?

    My wife & I have been married for 12 years. We have 3 children 8 & under. For the most part we are a loving & fun family, but I am seeing some serious red flags being raised and I have no idea what to do or who to turn to for help, without causing irreparable harm to my marriage. Here's my...