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honesty

  1. J

    Should we always be honest even if it's not the morally right thing to say?

    Hi everyone, I would be hugely grateful for some advice around an area of uncertainty I'm facing at the moment. I was recently informed that my role at work is being made redundant. From my experience of the on-the-ground nature of the organisation's operations, I have huge reservations around...
  2. BornNew

    I revealed my past to my husband

    Hi. First of all, thank you for clicking on my post. I need your advice or maybe your perspective on what I am about to tell everyone here. I am married. It has been more than year since I got married. My husband and I are both Christians. Before we started dating, my husband was not that...
  3. Christsfreeservant

    Do You Want to Know?

    Psalm 139:23-24 KJV Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting. The Search If we were to pray that prayer, would we mean it? Do we really and truly want God to search our hearts and minds and...
  4. MorkandMindy

    What we really need is honesty

    A democracy suffers when pretty much nobody knows what is actually going on, the votes are therefore normally wrong. And with no view of what needs to be done there can be no realistically grounded hope for the future.
  5. Christsfreeservant

    A Joy Beyond Measure

    Hear the word of the Lord, you rulers of Sodom! Give ear to the teaching of our God, you people of Gomorrah! “What to me is the multitude of your sacrifices? says the Lord; I have had enough of burnt offerings of rams and the fat of well-fed beasts; I do not delight in the blood...
  6. Christsfreeservant

    Walking with Integrity

    Integrity (definition): “firm adherence to a code of especially moral or artistic values: INCORRUPTIBILITY” (M-W Dictionary). Thesaurus: honesty, truth, morality, honor, reliability, and uprightness. Antonym (opposite): immoral, crooked, dishonest, fraudulent, perverted, and wicked. Proverbs...
  7. Christsfreeservant

    Charm or Reform

    Proverbs 31:30 ESV Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Charm Definition of charm – the chanting or reciting of a magic spell; a trait that fascinates, allures, or delights; to allure - to entice by charm or attraction; to enchant – to...
  8. LightLoveHope

    God of the heart

    Jacob I loved, Easu I hated. Rahab the prostitute. David had many wives, killed lots of people, committed adultery yet God blessed Him and walked with Him. Honesty despite our inclinations, repentance when faced with our responses. Sacrifices continuously in the temple, because our...
  9. Christsfreeservant

    Honest Confession

    Psalm 51 Introduction For the choir director. A Psalm of David, when Nathan the prophet came to him, after he had gone in to Bathsheba. David, a man after God’s own heart, who followed the Lord with all his heart, was still flesh and blood. He was still human, and he was tempted to sin as we...
  10. L

    Ethics of lying

    This is something I've always wondered: What are the actual ethics of lying, from a Christian perspective? For example when someone asks you for your opinion and you know the honest answer would hurt them. Or when you are flirting with someone and you exaggerate a bit or pretend to be more...
  11. JorB2

    Growing Through Honesty With God

    All you Christians; when you are praying, what kinds of things do you choose to share with God? Do you share feelings, struggles? Do you feel more connected with God when you share these intimate parts of your life with him? Does it help you grow in your relationship with him? Thanks!
  12. Christsfreeservant

    Speak to Them

    Say to Them Leviticus 19:1-2a NASB Then the Lord spoke to Moses, saying: “Speak to all the congregation of the sons of Israel and say to them… (Cf. 1 Co. 14:1-3; Eph. 4:14-16; Eph. 5:18-20; Heb. 3:12-13; 1 Thess. 5:11) It is not just the prophets and the pastors and teachers and elders who...
  13. Grip Docility

    Show me someone who claims to not willfully sin and I’ll show you a willful liar.

    Show me someone who claims to have overcome Willful sin in this body of death... and I will show you a willful liar. 1 John 1:8 1 John 2:2 is the ONLY solution! We are all willful sinners!!!
  14. Christsfreeservant

    Closer to God

    Do you ever have times in your life when you feel… well, maybe you don’t even know what you feel exactly, or you don’t know how to express it. But, you know you want to go deeper with God. You want more of him in your life, i.e. more of his life being lived out through you. You don’t want to sin...
  15. N

    I just yelled and vented at God

    There's stuff in my life that have caused me a lot of pain and anger for some time now. Finally it just blew up on me where I just finally, on my way to work in my car, just blew up and screamed at God. I told him how [staff edit] mad I was and told him exactly how I felt. I told him that I no...
  16. J

    My letter to my modernist RCIA class

    I've written the following letter to my modernist RCIA class. I would all of you to please read it and give me feed-back and suggestions (including typos): Throughout my entire life, I was told by this culture that I could impose my own will on reality, IT. DOESN’T. WORK! You can’t impose your...
  17. J

    A Dialogue with Liberal Catholics (for the Lord's "Table")

    Okay... Here I go! I've been struggling a lot with rash judgement and backbiting, due to my liberal parish and my own moral weakness. So I've decided to open up this thread to speak with liberal Catholics directly if there are any on Christian Forums, or if there any Catholics who take the...
  18. Christsfreeservant

    Genuine Love

    Sunday, December 18, 2016, 2:48 p.m. – The Lord Jesus put in mind the song “When in the Stillness.” Speak, Lord, your words to my heart. I read Romans 12:3-21 (ESV). Practice Humility (vv. 3-8) For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he...
  19. Quid est Veritas?

    Sir Gawain, Regulus and keeping your word

    Marcus Attilius Regulus was a Roman Consul captured by Carthage during the first Punic war. He subsequently was sent to negotiate peace with Rome and gave his word he would return to his captors. After telling his fellow Romans to continue the war, he returned to Carthage to be tortured and...